Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

i know maybe i should walk away but why should he get away with treating me so bad

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

he is 33-already has a 12 year old from a very early relationship-he does love me-but he feels he should do whats expected from his culture -young girl lots of babies-he already feels he failed first time round. we have discuused things many times and so many times i have said to finish. he always comes back cries and apologises tells me how much he loves me and how stupid he is and no-one has never understood him or loved him like i do. but my recent illnes has frightened him-it was life and death-brought all the old issues to light-he thought i was goingto die- he said some really horri9ble things this time-not sure i can forgive him-i love him and i have given him so much-when i need himhe wants to run-yes he has apologised again-but this time something has to change-i do not want to be the bit on the side who he runs to when playing happy families becomes to much-me or her i think- and i do think his family and her should know what he is truely like-no he does not love her- he says she is 20 and naive and he has been visiting her at her parents houseand they like him and if they and she knew about me she would drop him-wants our relationship to be a secret forever-even the fact that he was ever with me-i told himhe really is askingtoo much of me now and that i will let everybody know and whats he scared of if he loves her and she loves him

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

howhas my post suddenlly turned into polish girls are more beautiful than english???????-i am a very beautiful woman-this is one reason he keeps comimg back! beautifu lwoman with money and experience-thatswhat he doesntwant to loose

i have had otherpolish guys while in poland been intoxcicated with me -and no he is not very handsome or particulary virile-in fact not many wopman polish or otherwise would give him a first let alone second glance!!love and yes maybe i am blind does not judge at this level-love is something thatyou feel not see- i was looking forhelp here-i think my illness has made him think about mortality etcand what little he has achieved in his life so far- in fact i sometimes think he is making this girl up-he does tend to tell stories-he has a low opinion of himsel-and believes-perfection will givehim gredibility-he knows i love him for him with all his faults and he sometimes just cant believef someoneloves him

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

anyone interested in knowing who he is?-i thinkhis "new girl" should be warned-she maybe on this forum or someone may know her-his nameday is tomorrow- begins with a sl......r -means peaceand glory-lol-lives in perlino-a village an hours drive from gdynia-his surname is rad...ki

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

no-one has to admitt knowing him on here but if they hear a friend talk about new boyfriend may warn her- just trying to protect other women-least i can do

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

he hasnt told his parents the truth-he said last night he would "put me in hospital" if i went to speak to his parents and if i found out who this girl was-i said how could he possibly ask me to still see him as a friend or ortherwise after saying such terrible things. he said because he still wanted me to help him-he said he was going to drive to gdynia tomorrow after seeing "her"and i was to give him money for petrol and if i didnt cause him trouble he would let me perform a sex act for his pleasure-and then he would drive back and have sex with her i know this sounds unbelievable but it is true-i have recoreded all these conversations and i will let him drive but i wont be there-and after tomorrow i will change my number and address-and never speak to him again-but one day i will let the right people knowwhat a monster he is

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

quote=gtd]
I would call the police and let them know he has threatened you and write her and her parents a letter as it is easier to stay calm in[/quote]

i have thought about doing this i have evidence of his threats-willthe polish police-listen to an english woman?

also should i put him of coming tomorrow iwhen he finds i am not there i am scared he may come looking-he knows my english address

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]


please this is not a joke-he has never been able to stay with a woman for long-now i know why-he is a dangerous man

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

how can i put him off coming tomorrow-what can i say to him? i cant leave until saturday at the earliest-if i can just put him of comimg tomorrow gives me time to organise money etc

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]


i pity you find this amusing quote=wildrover]
called being a sociopath [/quote]
i do think this is the case-

Love / Moved to Poland to my younger boyfriend, now got sick; he's got a new one [194]

he turned up to night-i had the door locked-i hid where he could not see me- i eventally answered his calls-i told him i was not at home i was at friends-he told me to get back and see him-i said no-i told him to go spend more time with his girlfriend-he was banging on the door-i kept to my story-i stayed calm-he had told me he was seeing-her tonight-me tomorrow-hesaid i should always be waiting for him

i told him i was scared of him that he would hurt me-he said no-i told him i was happy he had girlfriend i said its okay i wont cause trouble i understand and i was staying with my friend till friday so he could see his girlfriend and i will see him on friday-he said i was good for accepting his girlfriend and he was going back to her-and he would come back friday-he believed me and he went-i was so scared-he has just called to say he loves me and not to be scared of him and what a good woman i am for keeping the secret.

i wont sleep tonight i will go to the police in the morning