mandellmungo
22 Aug 2008
Love / 2 different cultures or 2 different people [44]
Sorry to hear all this . I hope you will slowly feel better and better .
Other people went through it so remember you are not alone !!!
I had 2 years together with a E. European woman .
We had a close relationship and she clearly felt very very close to me indeed .
. I Helped her with everything I could .
She had my visa card and respected it = she took about £40 a month only when she was desperate . She was my girlfriend and I felt strongly that you help those close to you . It was OK and respectful
After one and a half years , it all changed but she told me almost nothing .
she began to take a LOT of money and cheated me financially in other ways as well . Cheated me in every way she could .
She was seeing other men by now , unknown to me . She became ruthless, cynical and treated me **** , as if I was not a human .
She left me , cruelly and playing with me . Saying to me how much better rthe new man is
having promised repeatedly to pay certain money to me as a matter of conscience .
I am left feeling that she has almost no conscience and will use any person or situation if she needs and does not care what happens to other people .
This is because she HAS to be ruthless and selfish to live .
She grew up with a cynical mentality in a very poor , very damaged country AFTER perestroika .
In E Europe everybody knows that you must be very selfish to survive , or you get crushed by other , more ruthless people .
NO collective , cooperative principles are left in Poland and E . Europe . UK is not a fair, caring or good country but still you meet a good proportion of people who are DECENT , KIND, SENSITIVE
. They can afford to be because they came from a good background in the 60 s and 70s , when there was less competitiveness and individualism . Britain was very safe , getting rich , and socially getting much more stable and happy. THis created a good mentality .
Worse still, the disaster of distorted communism by Stalin-Brezhnev- Honecker-Jaruzcselski is really feeding through into people's personalities and emotions . I spent 10 years with East Europeans and I DO NOT WANT TO GENERALISE , but the younger women seem to be selfish , cynical and without any humanistic principles , and no idea what community, love your neighbour or socialism is about at all. They are often damaged , selfish , greedy , needy and ruthless.
They can use you and destroy you like NONE OF MY ENGLISH GIRLFRIENDS (OVER LAST 20 YEARS) WOULD EVER DO
Sorry , poverty and stalinism makes people very warped
THERE ARE DEFINITELY
a few beautiful exceptions - they tend to be over 30 and more ideologically and emotionally connected to the elements of socialism that were OK - caring and cooperative , collective . Of coure they hate Marx and socialism,now
but the best of them are influenced by the (occasional ) good things from tat time .
Are the women there often not created by a disaster of poverty and stalinist distortedness ? My experience over 10 years is yes , they are - and the younger the women are the worse they are .
Russia is much the worst , then Ukraine , Latvia , Lith, Estonia to a lesser extent Poland ,
Mind you , British women also see us men as something to assess as a commodity / use / get money from / . It 's shame that Western Feminism is at its best so intelligent and so profoundly humanistic, but most of our women know nothing at all. They can treat others like objects that have no feelings
But to return to the point , Eastern women are perhaps even worse
POLISH WOMEN _ WHAT DO YOU THINK ???
Tatyana from Evgenii Onegin and the Slavic heroine has indeed become a bastardised Gold-digger ?
a)
Sorry to hear all this . I hope you will slowly feel better and better .
Other people went through it so remember you are not alone !!!
I had 2 years together with a E. European woman .
We had a close relationship and she clearly felt very very close to me indeed .
. I Helped her with everything I could .
She had my visa card and respected it = she took about £40 a month only when she was desperate . She was my girlfriend and I felt strongly that you help those close to you . It was OK and respectful
After one and a half years , it all changed but she told me almost nothing .
she began to take a LOT of money and cheated me financially in other ways as well . Cheated me in every way she could .
She was seeing other men by now , unknown to me . She became ruthless, cynical and treated me **** , as if I was not a human .
She left me , cruelly and playing with me . Saying to me how much better rthe new man is
having promised repeatedly to pay certain money to me as a matter of conscience .
I am left feeling that she has almost no conscience and will use any person or situation if she needs and does not care what happens to other people .
This is because she HAS to be ruthless and selfish to live .
She grew up with a cynical mentality in a very poor , very damaged country AFTER perestroika .
In E Europe everybody knows that you must be very selfish to survive , or you get crushed by other , more ruthless people .
NO collective , cooperative principles are left in Poland and E . Europe . UK is not a fair, caring or good country but still you meet a good proportion of people who are DECENT , KIND, SENSITIVE
. They can afford to be because they came from a good background in the 60 s and 70s , when there was less competitiveness and individualism . Britain was very safe , getting rich , and socially getting much more stable and happy. THis created a good mentality .
Worse still, the disaster of distorted communism by Stalin-Brezhnev- Honecker-Jaruzcselski is really feeding through into people's personalities and emotions . I spent 10 years with East Europeans and I DO NOT WANT TO GENERALISE , but the younger women seem to be selfish , cynical and without any humanistic principles , and no idea what community, love your neighbour or socialism is about at all. They are often damaged , selfish , greedy , needy and ruthless.
They can use you and destroy you like NONE OF MY ENGLISH GIRLFRIENDS (OVER LAST 20 YEARS) WOULD EVER DO
Sorry , poverty and stalinism makes people very warped
THERE ARE DEFINITELY
a few beautiful exceptions - they tend to be over 30 and more ideologically and emotionally connected to the elements of socialism that were OK - caring and cooperative , collective . Of coure they hate Marx and socialism,now
but the best of them are influenced by the (occasional ) good things from tat time .
Are the women there often not created by a disaster of poverty and stalinist distortedness ? My experience over 10 years is yes , they are - and the younger the women are the worse they are .
Russia is much the worst , then Ukraine , Latvia , Lith, Estonia to a lesser extent Poland ,
Mind you , British women also see us men as something to assess as a commodity / use / get money from / . It 's shame that Western Feminism is at its best so intelligent and so profoundly humanistic, but most of our women know nothing at all. They can treat others like objects that have no feelings
But to return to the point , Eastern women are perhaps even worse
POLISH WOMEN _ WHAT DO YOU THINK ???
Tatyana from Evgenii Onegin and the Slavic heroine has indeed become a bastardised Gold-digger ?
a)