Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

to be honest, I would have thought that she is sleeping around. Once the trust has totally diminished and you lose your confidence in her then it's dead

I'm really sorry man.

I sometimes suspect that my girlfriend, who is also Polish may be having second thoughts. She recently moved to England and we live together. We argue quite often yet the passion is still there. I don't think she's cheating but I often get the feeling she isn't completely honest with me..

I saw something she was saying to her friend online and i saw Danem - my name is Dan - so i asked what it said.. she replied ummm errr ahh umm... so i copied the sentence and then told her it doesnt matter...

could someone translate this for me:

"ja nie umiem byc do konca soba w zwiazku z Danem"

I tihnk it's something like "I am not totally myself with Dan"... but i could be wrong.

ps sorry to hi-jack the thread, the thought just occurred to me

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

I fail to see any relevance to your problem and God?

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

I would stop comparing and trying to make sense of things.. but just accept that 'sh*t happens'.

I'm really sorry and these things happen to the best of us. Life is not fair but if you want to meet the girl that is right for you then it is you that has to do it. Don't rely on anything else :)

Ps can anyone translate my text?

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

He must be stuck on that end level on Elder Scrolls! it kept me occupied for a long time!

Dude - there are plenty of fish in the sea and you need to find someone that shares your strong faith. it appears to me that you have a close bond with God. find someone that shares this

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

Cmon Sofia.. have you not seen where he says that she was receiving 'sweet messages' and she was lying about it.. does that sound like someone with a clear conscience? Don't be naiive :) This girl is not worth it

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]


Pardon the expression.. and all the female forummers will begrudge me saying this..

Snakes with Tits!

And being heavily into faith, im guessing you believe in Adam & Eve.. so should make some sense

[dont delete this! or just change tits to breats ;)]

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

GranParita.. dont listen to them. You would neglect your love for her if you had an inner feeling of what was happened and decided to put it to the back of your mind.

You know when you know. It doesn't take a master detective. These things happen and it's terrible when it does. Dont curse and try to find reasons, just forget and move on. Is she begging you to take her back?

If she is receiving sexy texts from 'boss' or 'taxi' then 100% sure she is not to be trusted.

Everyone else can get off their high judgemental horse and stop thinking they are better than GranParita. They have obviously not been in the same situation before. I deeply hope they never are as well.

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]


You get drunk after 2 pints you whooly woofta!!!!! :P

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

Im English as well. And i have never, ever, ever said I am going out for a swift half.

Also, if you said you just had a couple you would 'swiftly' be in the back of their car on the way to the station crying that you will lose your license :D#

edit to say:
Unless you are drinking Fosters; or you are massively tall or massively fat

Love / What's God's answer TO my gf, after cheating on me after 4 years? [65]

hmmm maybe you had a small...

I dont really think people are giving the OP what he was looking for. He needs cheering up and that often requires some cheekiness, laughter and sometimes nastiness.. obviously directed at the girl!! It will make it so much easier to get over her if you feel she is not worth thinking about. Don't sit there thinking oh maybe it was me, maybe it was my fault, what did i do wrong, i am a terrible person etc etc etc.

Fact is - you dont trust her. it doesnt matter why now, just forget her, move on and maybe stay single for a bit. there is no rush mate - try to enjoy your life, or your gift as you say from God, whilst you can :)

ps please stop deleting my posts. Thx xx