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LLuvia   
2 Apr 2008
Love / The relationships with the Polish girls? "Platonic friendship." [36]

I know a polish girl that is wonderful. Intelligent, Beautiful, Nice. Everything is perfect about her. As I m Spanish we came from very different cultures. I m not a rude guy or nothing like that. She gave me her phone number to call her to go out (I didn’t asked her). In the first date I tried to kiss her but nothing happened. I got very close to her but she didn’t react or moved to that. She didn’t even blink. It never happened to me before. I m really shocked. How fast are the relationships with the polish girls? I m not in a hurry at all but I don’t want her to see me as a “Platonic friend”.

Could a polish girl tell me any advice?
Thanks.
LLuvia   
2 Apr 2008
Love / The relationships with the Polish girls? "Platonic friendship." [36]

I realy like that girl. the other day she told me that she loves red wine. As I went to my country for easter I brought some bottlels of very good wine. Who do polish girls could react if I give her one. I only went out one time with her and i m not really sure that it will be a second.......

anyway I will follow your advice and i will be patient and wait for her call. I dont think she will call me. :-(
LLuvia   
2 Apr 2008
Love / The relationships with the Polish girls? "Platonic friendship." [36]

We where speaking in a disco at the university. I got close enogh to feel her breath but she dident move away or react in any way. she acted like it never happened and the date continued for another 2 hours. we were together almost 5 hours that night.
LLuvia   
3 Apr 2008
Love / The relationships with the Polish girls? "Platonic friendship." [36]

I dont know waht kind of spanish people you all know but I waited 8 months beforego going to the bed with the last spanish girlfriend. I think that relationships has no times or rules. I could wait the same for this girl. I do not "expect things to happen right away".
LLuvia   
3 Apr 2008
Love / The relationships with the Polish girls? "Platonic friendship." [36]

I dont know waht kind of spanish people you all know but I waited 8 months beforego going to the bed with the last spanish girlfriend. I think that relationships has no times or rules. I could wait the same for this girl. I do not "expect things to happen right away".

From meeting to the bedroom in 3 hours!

I would never do something like that and not because i dident have the oportunity.
I wold never want a girl that goes to the bed in 3 hours. If she that with you it will do it with another 10 a year. Trust me... I know that kind of girl.

Sounds like you may have to step-back alittle to see whether she tries to get hold of you, would be a good indicator.

I think that this is the best idea of all. I will wait for her call. Ones a friend told me this: "If you want something , set it free. If it comes back, it is your, take it. If it does not.... it was never your." I will follow it.
LLuvia   
3 Apr 2008
Love / The relationships with the Polish girls? "Platonic friendship." [36]

It has nothing to do with my ego and we are not 16 years. Diferent cultures has diferent ways for doing things. I have a brasilian friend that he told me that in his country it was easy to kiss many girls (Whiout paing) in the same night.

I tried to kiss her because I thought that that is what she wanted. My question was .... How bad did I do considering the polich culture?

It never happend to me before that a girl would not react at all. I could spect many reactions.... but no "No reactioin"

by the way explain me what you ment before with :"Sinc eyou are Spanish, you expect things to happen right away"
LLuvia   
10 Apr 2008
Love / The relationships with the Polish girls? "Platonic friendship." [36]

Lluvia, you just sound bitter and childish because you didnt get what you wanted

That is comlitily stupid. I just wanted to know how but i did it and how to solve it.
I found the easer way to do it. I was sincere to the girl and told her that I was sorry for what I did (because is the true). She told me that it was not needed to say soory for that. she was very nice. She offer me to go to her house to eat dinner and had a great time. Things are going good.

thanks a lot for your advices.