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luhif   
4 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

Hi..I m in a relationship from loooong time.and i really need help.I said 'any polish girls' coz girls understand girls better that boys....

Ok here is my story..I really appreciate in advance.

I met this girl at my workplace.it was last april.she was(and ofcource is) really cute,sweet,of course beautiful,polite..well everything...lol..

we were working together so we became friends and now we are best friends.

I know she likes me but i cant get a clue if she likes me the way i like her..well i feel i love her..

she is not in london now..she had to go back to poland coz of an accident...

we still had touch after she went in last october..we were texting eachother..i was calling her and u know it was like 2-3 hours long conversation..

BUT..

I still couldnt get any clue coz lets say i dont have much experiance about girls..

now there is one of our colligue who is getting married in this april and she has invited both of us and ofcource the girl I love has invited me at her as well coz she thought to show me some beautiful places in poland..

I m going to visit poland in april hopefully..

how to know if she likes me or not??

ohh I m little bit shy in asking her..

could anyone help me please??

Thank you.
luhif   
5 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

She sent txt..twice... that she has never supposed she ll meet person like me..and she

is glad about it..she also txt me once when she got my picture from her uncle who took

my picture when I went to drop her mom when she(her mom) was in london and

ofcource she

cant speak english..so I went wiv her and we were waiting for my friend's uncle to pick

her mother up from station..when he came,he took my picture wiv my friend's mom and

when he went to poland he showed that picture to her n she sent me txt that she got

my picture from her uncle and she said i m looking so good.just cute..she always tells

me that I m very clever..very intelligent...LOL

She trusts me so much...ummm let me give u an example..I even knew her card's pin no..

Once i asked her when she came to know that i m clever?? and she said when she saw

me first time...she said she can tell just by looking in someone's eyes if they r clever..LOL

Anyway I took Wroclaw's advice and sent her flower's already...

Lets see what happens...

Thanks guys..really appreciate...
luhif   
7 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

ask her out for a drink or something and see what happens

have you (either of you) never asked the other out for a casual drink or dinner

Humm...Actually she asked me first for drink...Yes we went 4-5 times for coffee..

Wen she had an accident...she was unable to go out coz she was walking on crutches..and..i used to go her home with dinner..sometime...

I can't imagine why you're not sure. It's so clear.

I m not sure coz she hasnt showed me OR better to say that I couldnt see any signals..

I wasnt touching her AT ALL..just when she wanted to move coz she had an accident

and she couldnt walk on her own...so i was lifting her to help her going upstairs or

coming downstairs...she was on crutches...

Anyway i sent her flowers and probably she has received it but i didnt get any txt or

mail from her..

I m getting nurvous..
luhif   
8 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

Wersal ¦ Yesterday, 16:35 did you use interflora to send these flowers???

No i used giftideas.com and i think their service is good..coz i instructed them if they can

deliver it on saturday and they did...

Acctually on their site they say that their delivery days are monday to friday and they

might deliver on weekends but its up to them...

Now wht happen yesterday....

I was online looking for customer service email for that flower company to ask them

about my order..and she came online and we started chatting..she said she was

surprised to see me online..so i asked her did u get any other surprise today?? she said

no and asked me why i asked that?? I replied that nothing but she said dont lie and i

had to tell her she might get surprise tomorrow..so she knew something is coming but

didnt know what is it...

She received it today and sent me txt saying Thank you very much...

Now what??? She didnt say anything else...
luhif   
8 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

Wersal wrote Just keep talking to her and do what londonchick said

Hey i tried again and she picked up.actually her family was out n she wasnt there...

She said ofcource she liked it...

She said she wud know it even if i didnt write my name and didnt tell her anything..

I m happy... :-) thank u guys...

when is she coming back???

In june i think coz she is studying there...

But i m thinking to go in april to visit her..
luhif   
12 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

poeland69 wrote : If she invited you to a wedding im pretty sure she likes you

She did not invite me to wedding..It was my another couligue who is getting married in
April..She invited her too...when she came to know that I might come to attend
wedding,she asked me if I can stay longer so that she can show me some beautiful
places in Poland.

poeland69 wrote : I don't think asking her "do you like me?" is the way to go

I agree.

shewolf wrote : Why don't you just ask her how she feels about you? If you're too shy to ask her in person, do it through an email or a letter. Just say something simple like, "are your feelings for me purely friendship or do you feel something more? I'm just curious."

May be u r right but its better to say in person isnt it? I know its very difficult for me but I will do it somehow..as I got answer from LondonCkick like I have to look for signs..

so i ll do it..

shewolf wrote:But if you wait too long to make a move she might think you don't like her. It's all about the right timing for your situation.

Well i can say that it she wont think that coz I know her little bit...yes i totally agree wiv u and polishgirltx about timing and situation..

Well U know I asked her like Wht kind of guy do u like?? and she answerd like she cant belive that i m asking her these kind of things...but she replied and told me that wht kind of guy attracts her..like he has to be Clever,Understanding,Resorceful,Surprising,Little crazy as well LOL...
luhif   
18 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

I messed it up guys.. :-( ...I m soooo sad now...

I followed what Shewolf said and asked her in chatting and she said 'pure friendship...'

then I asked her few questions like 'Talking for hours on the phone'?? She said If we both have common topics then why not??

I asked about flowers(red roses) - she said she wud love to receive flowers from anyone..

I asked her about compliments..she said 'have I ever told u that u r handsome?

ofcource u r but i knew that i cant say it to u'

She kept on asking me like 'What will be now??' coz she doesnt want to loose a friend like me..

HELP PLEASE :'(
luhif   
18 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

But I REALLY REALLY REALLY.....LOVE her...

Thats the problem u know....

Whenever I try to forget her...it comes with its maximum force..

I know it sounds strange but its first time I m feeling like this....

I told her that u r not replacable...

And to be honest..she is the first girl i have ever fell in love with...

I know some of u wont belive me...but thats true.

I told her as well that she is the first girl ever and she said she knows...

She still asks me to visit Poland...I will go probably...

I have accepted the truth... but heart...the problem is there..

She was sad herself while chatting...

I told her not to be sad coz of me and she was like 'tell it to my heart,i dont think that it ll listen'

She asked me when we were working together that 'please correct me whenever I make mistakes in english'

I even corrected her when we wer chatting about this matter and she was like 'U know I really like u and u know that' coz I corrected her even in that conversation.

tornado2007
wrote : i don't really understand why she thought she couldn't say it to you, unless she meant it because she didn't want to act as if she was leading you into someting and giving you false hope. You'll have to clear that one up for me.

She didnt tell me 'u r handsome' coz she didnt want me to think that she is feeling something for me...I came to know when she told me..

tornado2007
wrote : well what's next is your decision, do you want to be her friend even if you can't be anything more?? Will it work, what i mean is are you able to just be her friend without making advances or getting frustrated about your feelings and not been able to air them??

like i said..its difficult but I will do it..

I know i made it wrong by doing it online but can we change which has happened already??

jestesjedyny wrote : wow luhif Now she sounds like a tragically different person! Like a very rude one: "have I ever told u that u r handsome?"

she wasnt rude at all...she was trying to give me proofs that she didnt do anything that can make me feel that she feels for me the same way..

I ll stay friends anyway..but its very difficult...
thanks for the advices guys..

special thanks to tornedo...
luhif   
26 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

shewolf wrote : If a man is going to walk away from a woman just because she rejected him, he was obviously only using her.He didn't really love her. He just wanted one thing from her. Love doesn't just go away like that.

true..i agree...Love doesnt just go away....

shewolf wrote: She's going to feel hurt and deceived, too, if he led her to believe that he was a true friend.

true..very very true..coz as i said..she was trying to give me each proof that she didnt want me to think that she is feeling something about me.

even she was very sad about it..

she told me that she wanted to talk wiv me when i visit poland..

but unfortunately...it came out earlier..
luhif   
26 Mar 2008
Love / Does she like me? - help needed please from any Polish girls.. [79]

King Sobieski wrote:
maybe she just likes you as a friend...

yeah...u were right..

King Sobieski wrote :and i dont think she was playing you

NOT AT ALL...i didnt even think that she was playing with me...nor I m thinking now..I know her little bit..she IS a very good girl..

King Sobieski wrote :she just liked your "friendship"

yeah i know now...and she still likes it.