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Ireland32   
24 Feb 2009
Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Thanks for the comment Polskadoll. Both myself and her Manager have hadone phone call each. When she called her Manager it was from the ex boyfriends number who had text her Manager saying she wanted to speak with her. They are both females and verygood friends and she often sought comfort in her. During the call her ex boyfriend was standing over but left the room for a short while during which time she said she had made a big mistake going home. She was due to go to her Managers daughters wedding next Month and planned to get new dress and shoes while she was home.

When she rang me yesterday it was from a phone her ex had given her to contact him once she was finished at hairdressers. Again she was getting colour done by a friend who is a hairdresser for wedding in couple of weeks in Ireland. She told me she needed to let things settle down and for people to stop watching her before she could make contact again but again said she made big mistake going home. She told me she missed me and loved me nd to try and stay calm.

Thats were im at now.........She doesnt have email. I guess I have to sit and see what happens. She has 2 brothers here in Ireland, one of whom I have contacted but all I get from him is that it is not his business.
Ireland32   
23 Feb 2009
Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Her family were putting her under pressure because there was a half built house involved. She wanted to go home to make things right. She has a sister getting married in September and wanted things back home to be settled. She was planning to go to a wedding here in Ireland next month. When I left her to the airport that morning I could see the worry in her eyes.

Came on her hoping for a bit of advice...... I did read the thread from TED yesterday......thats why I posted the thread today after getting the phone call
Ireland32   
23 Feb 2009
Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

He constantly knew her moves. He was texting a friend who lives in same area. Everytime she left the house he would text or ring. The he started ringing and texting me. We both denied everthing. When she arrived in Warsaw she rang me to say she arrived safely. That was last Wednesday. Her ex rang me later saying he seen the texts on her phone and after that I knew he had it as he had taken phone from her before.
Ireland32   
23 Feb 2009
Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

That may be so bt it does not explain constant texs from her ex. She also still has all her gear and money here in Ireland......and to top if off I got a phone call from her today. I dont think its a yarn or scam lads....sorry
Ireland32   
23 Feb 2009
Love / Whose Life is it? Polish girlfriend under family "house arrest" [224]

Im Irish and recently over the last 3 months began seeing a polish girl I had known and worked with for 2 years. We always had a bit of a spark but she had a polish boyfriend and I knew not to get involved and stayed clear. Last year they were having problems ( he drinks alot, no job) and split but he was reluctant about this but went home hoping she would change her mind. During this period we began to see each other and really hit it off. We enjoyed spending time together and talked about future. Her ex found out back in Poland and began causing us problems and with her family in Poland. She felt she needed to go home and explain to her family and hope thry would respect her decision. As soon as she arrived in Poland, her ex boyfriend confiscated her ID and took her to her family home. They are taking his side. She is now under house arrest and has been told she will never return to Ireland. How can this happen in this day and age....Whos Life is it and how can others make this choice. She had a job she loved and a future she dreamed about. All she wanted was to be happy !! She was due to fly back to Ireland on Saturday. Now I dont know if I will ever se here again.