Posts by jestesjedyny

jestesjedyny

2 Jan 2008

Love / Polish Boyfriend Left to Poland [19]

There's lots of Poles here in the U.S. -- there'll be another chance for you, too.

yup !! true. But heyy.. time will tell !! lol ((: ty!!

polishgirltx

Reallyyyyy !! You're such a strong woman !!!! I wouldn't stay alone at 21. I'd pee my pants :x

:D You guys cheer me up.. even plk123 with his bubbles burster LOL I had to smile/laugh ((: But anyways, I can still keep in touch with him.. and whatever !! who knows. the future has lots of surprises <33 ohhhhhh

Happy New Year everyone!!! Little late. sowwy

jestesjedyny

2 Jan 2008

Love / Polish Boyfriend Left to Poland [19]

let him go hon... don't even think about it.. lust will subside soon enough. now go outside and play or something.

you admire a guy who can't stand up on his own and has to ride his daddy's coatails? wow.. :D :D :D :D this section of the PF has been a real riot as of late.. thanks for the laughs you all. :D :D :D :D

I admire him for many things. And I understand him... I know your point plk123. But in this case, he works !! He gets everything he wants on his own. I don't want this topic to curve :/ He'd have to start from basically nothing if he stays here in NYC when he has everything in Poland. Put yourself in his place! Working, living in NYC, no family? .. I try to think of me(as a man lol) in the same situation... I'd just go to Poland. But really, he is the kind of guy that works for what he wants. plk123, trust me, living in NYC in 4 walls basically lol just working to pay for rent!! damn the houses are from 600,000$ up!!! forgive you plk <33 you was being honest lol

He feels secure with his daddy and he doesn't have to worry about money, bills and work... If he will choose daddy's money and not you (you both are still very young tho), it means he is immature and he'd waste your time... Just wait how it goes, don't rush anything and the time will solve your problem... I know it's hard for you because you have feeling for him, but it's better to end something before all the mess will start...

I wish you all the best and good luck...

((: but imagine 1,000$ monthly rent +goods +needs + his car + no family. . give up education. And Of course he can make it on his own here.. but its hard. He knows it, I know it. His father wants him there, I guess a good father wouldn't leave his son in another country **alone** oh yea we are young.. :/ I'm in college... but you know time will solver my problem as you said<33

I took my mother's advice.. if its meant to be he will come back... if not amen. God knows whats best for us.

Thank you PolishGirlTx!!! Hopefully everything will turn out for good ((:

jestesjedyny

2 Jan 2008

Love / Polish Boyfriend Left to Poland [19]

I don't know if anyone else here has experienced something similar?

I was checking 'polish Love and Relationships' for a while, and I couldn't find anything similar ;(

I hope you two manage to work something out :-)

Thank you so much !!

jestesjedyny

2 Jan 2008

Love / Polish Boyfriend Left to Poland [19]

Siemaneczko !!

My polish boyfriend and I broke up... simply because his father is leaving to Poland... And he can't stay by himself with no family in US, so he'll have to go with his father and siblings forever. I'm losing him and his sister who is like my best friend. They are leaving soon!! with in 2 months from now. I believe they have the plane tickets already. The father has a wealthy life in Poland!! They have it good in Poland >.< Lands, houses.. etc. My boyfriend tried so hard to think of a way to stay in US with me, but he doesn't think he can make it on his own with no family around... it'd be hard for him to live a good life. I know him for a few months and I truly adore him!!, I know his sister for a longish time and i can say she doesn't want to go, but she is a minor!! 16yrs old and she will go wherever her father goes.

They have been in the US for like 6-7 years.
Do you guys think he will adapt living in Poland?

I'm a very optimistic person with lots of hope. I really want him to stay, if only his father changed his mind, it'd mean the world to me. I just think if it's meant to be, it will be. Maybe he won't adapt himself to live there and will come back... or any other reasons. Don't you think?? Who knows!! life is crazy. He is 21yrs old, a year older than me **blushes** :D ... >.< he is a charming guy... my prince charming ;(

What do you guys think about this whole nightmare? ;(

I don't know guys, I'm so sad!! because if it wasn't for his father wanting to leave, we'd still be together. We had a very good relationship.. >.< && i miss him very much!! But I also want the best for him.<3

BTW: I made up my mind. I will travel to Poland as soon as POSSIBLE!! For vacations. I'm always thinking about it. I'm not Polish... ;( I wish I knew Polish language... I'm always on those websites trying to learn words :p and listening to Polish musyka!! Currently: Chce tu zostac by Farba.

I'd appreciate chatting with you so much!! I think I'm way too sensitive. Cant help it... sowwy ;( hugs :* I typed too much :/