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Speaks Polish?: yes, though Polska język trudna język. ;)

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Matyjasz   
11 Feb 2009
Language / Poles! How do you cope with English phonetics versus English spelling? [37]

Just wondering how you all cope.

The same as with polish spelling of the words that have u/ó, h/ch, rz/ż, ect, namely by memorization plus hunch of intuition. Of course, mistakes and misunderstandings are inevitable. Once I asked a passerby whether she knows where is the nearest LIDL market...

Little market? - she said... Damn you English spelling!
Matyjasz   
10 Feb 2009
Life / 52% Poles: life in Poland is bad... [46]

I think, to be honest, that this is an instinctive reaction of Poles. Go with the negative if asked. I think that, were you to alert them to the good things in their country, they'd change their tune.

It was funny, I did an A-Z list of Polish associations and my list was much more extensive than theirs. They had all kinds of funny nonsense in there.

As one German once said, Poles are either Romantics or Cynics, which pretty much makes sense as a cynic is just a disillusioned romantic. :)
Matyjasz   
7 Feb 2009
Life / How do Poles feel about non whites/non Slavs living in Poland? [150]

Well I heard that Mein Kampf lacks cohesion and looks like a enormous rambling of a mad man, but this is an opinion of a person that couldn't possibly be mistaken for his fan. I also haven't had the chance to read it.

Yeah, that is funny. My g/f (or ex-, don't know anymore) actually stated that Poland was part of Western Europe :)
They may have been the most Western country of the Warsaw-Pact, but they are still a Central European country at it's most Western. I don't think it's racist if somebody calls me a Western European, because that is what I am. So why would it be racist if I call somebody who is obviously from a country to the East of mine and I don't know which, "Eastern European"? Or Central European, for that matter.

I never thought that my country men and women feel so strong about this subject until I actually joined this very forum, and I must admit that after asking some of my friends in the real life they confirmed this sentiment that they do not wish to be labeled as Eastern European. They didn’t call themselves western, though.

The concept of central Europe sounds very artificial for my taste, but than again so does eastern Europe. It’s a very out-dated idea. After all, USSR collapsed almost 20 years ago and A8 countries are not your enemies anymore.
Matyjasz   
7 Feb 2009
Life / How do Poles feel about non whites/non Slavs living in Poland? [150]

I agree that race is fictitious in parts, it's certainly elusive. It's weird that Hitler didn't see the merits in Slavs. It's not like they were Arabs who completely didn't fit the bill. That always confused me, Slavs have many endearing qualities.

Because it wasn't really about qualities of Slavs, but more about their land. Lebensraum for his kin, where they would procreate, prosper and other sh!t ze Germans do. ;)

You see racism is basically a form of pushing a certain group of individuals down the ladder to a lower level in social hierarchy, so that one could take advantage of them, for example economically. It really wasn't about inferiority of Slavs, but about Greater Poland, Silesia, Pommeln, ect...

PS: I always found it odd that Mexicans aren't considered white. They look quite white to me.
Matyjasz   
26 Jan 2009
UK, Ireland / Rise in race crimes linked to attacks on Poles [50]

no surprise there.it is always better to blame white poles for the crisis than other,dark skinned immigrants(this could make you a racist!) or yourself.very typical for this region of europe.

I'm sure the Pakistanis already got their part of bashing. Plus, it's not them that flood the UK in such great numbers in recent years.

PS: Good to see you back here on PF. :)
Matyjasz   
26 Jan 2009
UK, Ireland / ARE BRITS MEANER AND LESS HOSPITABLE THAN POLES? [79]

But why do you actually need a system in the first place? Surely, behaving spontaneously would cause much less of a friction, innit?

When I go out with my friends it really is random. When someone goes to fetch a drink for himself he usually asks whether someone else wants one too. People then either give him money, or go with him and buy themselves a drink, or the guy buys them a round and when they are through those people buy him a round, or when he insists that they shouldn’t they don’t….. *catches breath*

That way, there really is no pressure from the group and everybody drinks in their own pace and quantity. After all, isn’t going out with your friends about having good time with them rather than counting the numbers and measuring speed one pours alcohol down his throat?
Matyjasz   
26 Jan 2009
History / Polish Anti-semitism - origins? [186]

And prospered for 400 years.

Actually it was a lot longer than that. I used the number 400 as a comparison to 4 years the Poles have spent in the UK up until now. A significant Jewish community was in Poland at least since the 14th century, if not longer.
Matyjasz   
22 Jan 2009
UK, Ireland / ARE BRITS MEANER AND LESS HOSPITABLE THAN POLES? [79]

They're both good and bad. They each have their place. I have a drinks cabinet next to me at the computer containing whisky, vodka and wine. Why my girlfriend insisted on Żołądkowa vodka to go with spaghetti bolognese is something of a mystery to me. I'd have chosen red wine.

I agree. Żołądkowa Gorzka and spaghetti? Now that's very adventoures.

Żołądkowa is OK, but Krupnik is the real deal! Especially when home made!
Matyjasz   
22 Jan 2009
UK, Ireland / ARE BRITS MEANER AND LESS HOSPITABLE THAN POLES? [79]

i dont mind paying for drinks but would rather avoid having to get up and go to the bar - especially if it is full of a group of people who insist on buying their drinks seperately... inconsiderate tossers

Ay, you may be right. However mentioning the buying rounds ritual in a thread dedicated to hospitality doesn't say much about British generosity, now does it me ol china? Where I live hospitality is understood as an act of unconditioned kindness. You give and don’t expect anything in return. So at least when I buy a round I do it sincerely.

Now, as for the original question, does it really make a sense to compare those two mentioned cultures? The first time I visited an English friend of mine I felt totally offended. In Poland, when you visit someone it is considered extremely rude not to let your guest into the house and let him rot in the cold at your door. "Tylko nie przez próg!". However I fond out that in England it is considered rude to pop up without any prior notice. It seems that an English man's/woman's house is his/hers castle and sanctuary. Come to think of it, it's not that dumb after all. Maybe it would be better to try to understand the other culture instead of judging it? Both nations seem to have some good arguments on their side... Oh well...

Its a bit of a myth to say that all Polish families crack open a bottle of vodka as soon as you arrive. Sometimes people just dont want to drink vodka. Maybe they've realised their are far more tasty spirits to be had such as whiskey, which they'll drop hints about so that you'll bring them a bottle next time you're over.

Alcohol is like music; there are those tunes that you love from the very first time you hear them, alas very often the interest in them wears off just as fast as it appeared in the first place, and there are those tunes that you have to listen several times to appreciate and usually this is the music that stays with you for good. If whiskey was a song it would definitely be the latter. It's not an easy taste, but once it clicks in, you are just coming back for more.

Still, I don't see how whiskey could replace vodka in the future as vodka is an a lot more universal drink. You can drink it in shots if you want “a fast effect”. You can drink it in a form of a drink if you want to sip it and enjoy. Then there is a multiple variety of flavored vodkas. Cytrynówka as a aperitif, orzechówka as a great way to end a meal, krupnik staropolski on a cold winter evening or pomarańczówka with ice on a hot summer day… yumm.
Matyjasz   
22 Jan 2009
History / Poland and Lithuania [161]

It's always interesting to get to know what other people think about you and how they view certain events differently than you do.

Anyone else noticed how similiar is Lithianians description of their situation in history to the polish one? "Screwed between Poland and Russia.." Just replace Poland with Germany and there you go. :)

I could explain the whole situation but to do that i would have to "make a few century trip back in time" and I'm not sure if anyone here really is interested in it.

On the whole though, as much as I don't agree with this "screwed between Poland and Russia" attitude I must admit I really do understand why they feel upset and threatened by the Polish minority issues in their country. Show me a Pole who doesn't get excited whenever he hears the name Erika Steinbach.
Matyjasz   
20 Jan 2009
History / Polish Anti-semitism - origins? [186]

The answer to the question whether Poles are anti-semites or not largely depends on ones sympathy, or the lack of, towards polish people. Generally we could just swap stories, charts and statistics and still we wouldn’t find a perfect answer. During the WWII about 50 000 poles lost their lives as a result of trying to help Jews save their lives. We will never get to know the total number of Poles who risked their lives and the lives of their close ones to save people who often were complete strangers to them. And yet Poland also is a country were “Jedwabne” and pogrom kilecki took place. To make it even more complicated, there were many polish anti-semites who helped jews during WWII, just because they were decent human beings. Now go figure.

Maybe one day a wise man will appear with a formula that will put an end to this endless stifle and say yes or no? Who knows.

As for reasons for polish anti-semitism, there could have, and in fact were, many. For example, many brits on this forum have a big problem with polish immigrants that after 4 years don’t mix with the locals and tend not to bother to learn their hosts language. Now imagine an immigrant group that didn’t bother to learn the language and mix in despite being in England for 400 years. Surely some Lloyd or Archibald would get his knickers in a twist over it, innit? There were of course more but I actually got tired of this topic. Never in my life have I read more about the jews as on this site. Besides I prefer to listen about the good sides of polish-jewish relationship, which were many, rather than constantly read about the down-sides.
Matyjasz   
19 Jan 2009
History / Prussian History [29]

and both are from wikipedia...

Basically, Mazurs came from Mazowsze, which dialect together with the one from Greater Poland and Lesser Poland constituted the core of what is today known as the Polish language.

Yup....you see? Poles and Germans aren't born enemies! *hugs Luki* :)

Between the Prussian Tribute and the 18th century there were no polish-german conflicts, and there were a lot of Germans who contributed greatly to Rzeczpospolita. The last two centuries were definitely difficult for the relationship of our two nations, though. ;)

PS: @ Prince: "But the king beats the queen!" "Maybe where you live!" hehehe... priceless. :))
Matyjasz   
19 Jan 2009
History / Prussian History [29]

And I posted from where exactly?
Matyjasz   
19 Jan 2009
History / Prussian History [29]

Well...it's the actual version of 2009 too! :)

I was actually surpsised that you still cling to this version. Since you like wikipedia so much:

Die masurische Sprache ist eine polnische Mundart. Sie war im südlichen Ostpreußen - in Masuren - verbreitet.
Sie entwickelte sich seit dem 15. Jahrhundert aus dem masowischen Polnisch (Mazur = Masowier). Ihre Geschichte begann mit polnischen Siedlern, die vom deutschen Ordensstaat ins Land geholt wurden, das ursprünglich von baltischsprachigen Pruzzen besiedelt, doch durch Kriegsereignisse entvölkert war.

de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masurische_Sprache
Matyjasz   
19 Jan 2009
History / Prussian History [29]

A slavic language similiar to polish mixed with german....

Well that certainly was the official version of Prussian government in the 19th and early XX th century. The aim was to deny the Mazurians in times of Polish struggle for independence and Prussian politics of germanization, any links with the polish nation. Unfortunately, Mazurs where the descendants of the settlers that came to Prussia from Mazowsze (Masovia), and thus spoke just another dialect of the polish language. With time German language had it's impact on this dialect, just like it had on other polish dialects. For example, my grandfather always used to say "Gdzie som moje hozy!?" but still I doubt anyone would call the greater-polands dialect as a slavic language similar to polish with a German mix. It’s just another dialect of Polish language.

At the end of the day, the Mazurians were too polish for the Prussian government and too German for the polish commie regime.

I would also think that anyone who spoke Polish, was Polish.

Ahh, if only it was so simple. There were Mazurians who felt Polish, there were Mazurians who felt German, and also there were the ones who felt neither of those, but just Mazurians.
Matyjasz   
17 Jan 2009
Language / SAY TELL TALK SPEAK - HARD 4 POLES [22]

I'm telling you - it's not what I wanted to say.

I'm saying you - it's not what I wanted to tell! <-- this one sounds great! ;)
Matyjasz   
14 Jan 2009
History / Poland Betrayed in WW2 [243]

i would class them as pikeys gippo's and scroungers ..the most hated and horrible people ever put on this earth..

I like the sound of that. Maybe I will put it on my business card. :)
Matyjasz   
11 Jan 2009
News / Poland's Future Includes Fewer Poles, More Foreigners [324]

How will us POLES stop Foreigners from stealing away our Polish culture and turning us into another Russian speaking satellite FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER?

Start making babies right now. A lot of babies.

Or sabotage any attempts to improve the quality of life here in Poland.
Matyjasz   
8 Jan 2009
Life / POLES' ENGLISH COMPARED TO EUROPE AS A WHOLE? [39]

He always has a fair point!

The people I keep company with is just fine and I know some Polish people with very good English, my main point was that you would never find a Spaniard or Greek person with such bad (or even no English) English after 3 years in the UK, maybe it's because of the jobs the Greeks and Spanish take, means they have to use English - who knows.

:)

I think you are right. People with the worst English are those that weren't forced to learn it properly. One of the reasons I wanted to relocated to England was to improve my English. Unfortunately, I ended up on a construction site in an all polish team with little contact with English native speakers. :(
Matyjasz   
8 Jan 2009
News / Does the polish immigration cause the increase of the interest in Poland? [20]

"Symphony of Sorrowful Songs", eh? Yeah, we Poles like a proper cheerful tune. ;)

On a more serious note, you knowing about Lem, Górecki and Joseph Conrad ( although I do consder him more of a english writer) have a greater knowladge of polish culture than many of my country men and women, who decided to limit their contact with it to "M jak Miłośc" soap opera and "Strictly Come dancing" - the polish edition.

The ones who will,will be the ones who always did,Canal was a huge cult movie amongst those in the know even back in the 50s,(OK,I know thats Wajda but you get me..). What tends to happen in Britain is that it takes a decade or 2 and then the culture seems to absorb what it likes and ignores the rest,witness huge interest in Ska and regea in the late 60s early 70s ,about 10 years after the first mass immigrations from the West Indies,and witness britains most poular meal,Curry,not exactly a native Anglo /Celtic meal...:)

I'm sure you are right. Even now I can see them skinheads and rude boys moonstomping to some large disco-polo record. ;)
Matyjasz   
8 Jan 2009
News / Does the polish immigration cause the increase of the interest in Poland? [20]

The Polish immigration to Britain has definitly had a big effect.

Ahh, what a frank and in your face statement. I respect and appreciate that.

Generally, I think it would be too much to expect that suddenly British people will start to read Tetmajer, watch Kieślowski's movies, and listen to Szymanowski's symphonies.

Taking under consideration the fact that just less than a decade ago most of them thought of us and the rest of the nations from the former commie block states as of some kind of Russians, I would consider their knowledge of Kraków and Żywiec as a great strategic success and a good sign for the future. Mark my words, today they are getting wasted drinking Tyskie at a stag party in Cracow, tomorrow they will be listening to Penderecki's "Lament to the victims of Hiroshima"! ;)
Matyjasz   
4 Jan 2009
History / 70th Anniversary of start of WWII [50]

Well I don't know about Poland but I truly hope that the Germans aren't planning anything big this time.
Matyjasz   
4 Jan 2009
History / 70th Anniversary of start of WWII [50]

There is nothing shameful about being a nation of people who are not known for their fighting capabilities.

Yeah, I guess you should know that, innit? :)
Matyjasz   
29 Dec 2008
History / The only successful Polish Rising - 1918/19, Wielkopolska [13]

Two of my great-grandfathers participated in this rising. I must say that I am surprised of the level of recognition of this event from "Warsaw". Usually there were more concentrated on the rising in the part of Poland occupied by the Russians. Quite a refreshing change I must add.