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Cemeteries in Poland [7]
usualy think of themselvs as being an "upper class", should have thought of preserving something for thir children. What are your thoughts on that?
Right on, Patrycja!!!
Oh, yea, my "upper class" grandparents, and great grandparents came here and lived in the lap of luxury!!! The men worked for the railroad companies, the coal yards and the docks for long hours. My father and his brothers worked on the docks and helped to support those at home. My grandmother, who took care of her household of husband, four sons and her mother in law, went to work in the afternoon to clean other people's houses. She was wise enough to put away this money she earned, and when one of these houses came up for sale, she had enough saved to buy it.
These "upper class" people were living in the worst areas of cities and were not treated as high society. Many did not speak English, or have skills other than strength and determination.They worked at these hard labor jobs for little pay. But.... they all had the same dream, and that was to have a better life than they came from.
Yes, they loved their homeland, left their loved ones and put up with many hardships in order to give their children and grandchildren a better life. My grandfather would not talk of what he left, he said he was an American now. His homelife and his heart was Polish, but he would not share with others what he left in Poland, and worked so hard for, in America.
Please don't insult his integrity by calling him "upper Class"!
And, 30764, I'm not sure what you mean by preserving something for their children. How and what were they supposed to preserve?