Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

ok plk123 i going to move on

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

look shes never lied she has told me since this all happen that her main focus is her child and her mom and right now she doesnt have the thought or energy for a relationship while shes stressed about the last 4 weeks. i believe thats valid

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

why strange she llives here in states her mom lives here and brother thats it! she told me it was for just people who knew him!

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

i never met her dad, she said it was for family and his friends when he was living here. also everyone speaks polish and she siad it would be very uncomfortable for me. i really didnt give it thought just thought she should be with her family and respect the man which i have never met?

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

i told you i wasnt even looking at thread .... give it up point taken you misunderstood who i was responding too thanks for your observation

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

your right, sorry it just this guy doesnt know me but assumes he does, but he is entitled to a opinion.....

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

mate... huh? now i know why your ignorant! ok bloke

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

dude? yeah and i need the grip. This is coming from a guy that cant possibly have a girlfriend just from your words you can tell that your probably just a miserable person that needs to put down people because it makes you fell better when your sitting at home with a dirty t shirt on in your childhood bedroom cause you still live at moms, Thats the reality. You couldnt even percieve how iam to my girlfriend just the mere fact that i wanted advice is proof that i love her. I love to be loved and i understand to be understood. You might not get that cause of your ignorance, it means you have to give to recieve

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

hey VaFunkoolo, if you could read and its pretty evident you cant i was asking to understand her situation and her traditions ... It has nothing to do with self centerness! man child? only a self absorbed person would come out and say something negative because they feel like they arent worth much. i was here for help not hurt

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

thank you all for the great advice, im going to let her breathe and know that im here for her and will be until the end!

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

thank you for all your advice i guess time will tell

Thread attached on merging:
how long is the mourning process of polish women when they loss thier dad

my girlfriend has been in mourning for 5 weeks is thier anyone who could explain the whole process? polish women please

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

thanks z_darius, i have been giving her space just dont want to get to far away. but tomorrow is the 30 day mark and then sunday shes having a dinner with family and all his polish friends here in states i wasnt invited but i understand. are you from polish desent?

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

im not getting mad at the fact, i know shes upset i just didnt know of the traditions of the mourning period i wanted to be able to understand more thats all, i love her very much

Love / My polish girlfriend has changed following death of dad.. [153]

i just feel we are getting further apart and when i ask her about us she says im stressing her and pushing her.