It's quite simple. Even an autonomous fellow like yourself can understand it. We hope. If I say 'I' I am talking to myself, which I realise is what you're advocating, however, we tend to find involving others works better when forging relationships.
I subscribe to the popping candy theory that if the growth of reason is to continue, then the diversity of individuals and their opinions, aims, and purposes must never be interfered with but then again, we could all conform.
By the way, didn't you just take this off topic? I do hope you will chastise yourself very severely. :)
I try to speak easy language, but let me rephrase. If you do not like the forum, or you cannot live without smilies, signatures, or any other feature, you are free not not to visit this site any more. I cannot find a way to express it in a simplier way, sorry.