I posted a list of their tactics here once.
Those are beliefs ... not tactics
are at often least as happy, healthy, well adjusted, fulfilled as you, if not more so, so why pay all the money, attend the 'meetings' and go away for the 'weekends'?
Its contribution, and believe me people are more than happy to pay it. They do not take a single penny from any one else. And it is every individuals own wish if they want to contribute or not. No one forces. The meetings ... everything ... is free for everyone, without force.
Why are you so animalistic on this? If you don't believe, move aside. But you have no right to hurl stones. Yes Baha'is welcome anyone who likes to join, but we don't pull people in in exchange of money like many missionaries do in the east. Lets not talk about it. There will be too much to say ... and I don't like arguments which insult Religions, beliefs ... that should always be respected.
You should seriously think about getting out before it's too late.
I invite you to rethink your situation ... come ... have a tea with Baha'is in Warsaw. We will talk.
Whatever you are writing is very negative and baseless thing. Baha'is have complete freedom of expression, and like all religions have a set of laws they follow. I don't want this discussion to be blemished by you in bringing off topic matters.
is the life she had a chance of making in Poland so much better than the one she was leaving?
Probably atleast safer then in Grozny. Safety matters, future matters ...