but you don't even know what she looks like
You don't know that. Unless you're a troll and you're posting from both accounts.
she's just getting old
We're all getting older, every second we live. It's an unfortunate side effect of living in this spectrum of time and space.
Pity really that we can't transcend between the dimensions and pop in and out of time from time to time.
Like the man said.
"Time is a flat circle."
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