You send me a PM of condolences mean while stab me in the back on the Forum, i dont care what came first - Post or PM.
Ask for help, the support network is there for him. Benefits would be another route. Regarding the decisions, didn't have a good job to save away some cash? Highly educated? The opportunities to work a well paying job are here, that is not the case in many places.
1. Support network - what support network other than friends and family?
2. Benefits - What benefits would he be entiitled to whilst in full time employment?
3. Hard to save on 1300 PLN / month.
4. Yes highly educated, 1 level below masters prior to employment at the main employer for his small town.
He now has a chemical engineers degree sponsered by his employer, he is effectively out of the deep water currently.
This chap has been shat on from a gigantic height all his life, he's just too nice a guy. If he indulged in scamming and conning he'd be much better off thats for sure he played by the moral rules. Dont even get me started on him properly i could go on and on...... I got some shite to sort out but rest assured he's getting a huge pay day from me.
The opportunities to work a well paying job are here, that is not the case in many places.
Please proived links and proof including average jobs with average salaries.
Decisions have nothing to do with it, WHY the hell are there over 1,000,000 Poles in the UK, come on man.
easy, quick cash. easier chances for making more money.
Fcuk off, how many Yanks go abroad for easy money? how many Brits in search of money?
Easier is the name of the game, it isnt easy in Poland, are you suggesting that my brother in law made a bad decision not going to the UK? should he have abandoned his wife and children. The stats speak for themsleves they wouldnt leave friends and family unless they absolutely had to.
but you know, you are right. this is a guy that really is down on his luck. how many people are in his position, stealing because of a sick kid?
unfortunately 10's of thousands, not many steal but if it came to it, you'd die for your children.
I know you have an aeroplane and all that, but jeeze man step into the real Poland.
I have lots of contact with the locals its not so much a case of stealing but they'll scam and scam like theres no tomorrow. They quite simply have to in many cases.
I'm not trying to paint a rosy picture of poland, but medications? 12k worth of dr's bribes?
His worst decision came in the fact that he didnt ask me for the cash in the first place, no it wasnt 12k for bribes and medication, but take a few loan sharks, loan after loan and his total debt over the course of id say 2 years became 12,000 PLN.
My wifes mother has cancer its serious, couldnt be more serious, we paid 1000 PLN bribe for her to see a decent Onchologist, she had the correct screening and chemotherapy treatment within 1 month. I know of another lady literally dieing form cancer and she wont get chemo for another month 3 months from diagnosis. Shes not paying a bribe!! This is the fault of the government not enough funds for hospitals, but its redicolous that we need to bribe. Ive NEVER known a Doctor to turn down a bribe. Its rampant in Poland.