magic thinking, not surprising, but still magic thinking
Better just to divorce than go through the hoops of explaining yourself to clergy who then have a debate among themselves about it.
A friend (a priest taken out of parish work due to serious mental illness) worked for the Diocesan Marriage Tribunal as something called a 'Defender of the Bond'. He, who had never had a relationship and was so nutty they wouldn't let him near a pulpit or a parishioner was paid to argue in every case that an annulment should not happen.
Easier to sort it out at a lawyer.