skubus 7 | 42 7 Mar 2016 #1Hi all. I have a query regarding Polish traditions and customs. I'm an Irish guy married to a Polish girl. My wife and I argue quite a bit regarding finances. My wife's attitude when it comes to paying bills is that she shouldn't have to pay her share of the mortgage, electricity, gas, fuel, insurance etc because I had our house before we got together. She states that it is the male's responsibility to pay for everything. I can't get my head around this as it seems ridiculous. We both work but my wife saves all her money while I'm basically broke after all the usual bills are paid. Can anyone enlighten me on the facts regarding this issue?