How real is your international (Polish-other) relationship ?

is the question too intimate? how do you get on with your partner? is the relationship SEXY? what are the boundaries? what do you find difficult?

The difficult is that communication with polki is suffocatingly limited to plane physical level.A bad and good thing at the same time.
Good thing they are very submissive and ready to please.Bad they ask constantly for pomuc.
Good they are presentable you are not afraid to introduce them.Bad sometimes they are too provincial.
They have also very unstable mood and tend to ungratefulness.

In general polki are not a bargain.They just exist in massive numbers.

lol, i can't help it

What do you mean saying it?


Can you also explain a bit more? What are "massive numbers" and "bargain"?

Submissive means they do what you ask them to do.Massive numbers means that you are very likely to cone across polki not by choice but because they exist everywhere.

Not a bargain means that you lose almost as much as you win in a relationship with polki and they do not provide the extra value ukr and Belarus or even sometimes Czech girls are eager to provide.

So if I asked you the practical question is it better to have a girl from Poland,Czech,Ukraine or Russia,you could answer it would be better bargain a girl from Ukraine but probably I will get a polka because they are more available,sth like that.

Get on with your partner or get it on with your partner? Lol...

i know, it was too late to edit my post, feelings are important too

it's magical...

hehe, is it? i find it hard to believe

well, it doesn't hurt to have a laugh...

makes me feel more like smiling

Also most international relationships are based on common misunderstandings which give a rosy picture to each side.The classical ones are
1.The eastern European girl believes her bf is THE man while in reality he is nothing more than the average Joe in the West(a cultural shock when she finds out)

2.The western man thinks he got a real germ while in many cases he got the ho of the village totally unsuspected(although some Italians tend to marry prostitutes for some reason).

same thing everywhere, they think that their love is better and they can provide you with better (different) life


summing up...
this forum is just making people look so ordinary

Like any relationship, it has its ups and downs. Very little is plain sailing in life. It is what you make it.

Many polish girls look like ho's by western standards(they look decent by Russian standards).Also in the West they are Protestants and the Puritanism goes hardcore unlike in Slavic countries.

They are Protestants? Some are and some aren't, Exiled. Have you ever heard of Scotland and, even better, Ireland? Plenty of Catholics there. How about Spain? Religion doesn't play a part in my relationship with my wife. Practicality does :)

Getting "a germ" is not totally unexpected from a prostitute :P


Have you ever been to the West? Doesn't look like it...

Yes,polish girls mostly wear jeans but show more breast than western girls.In general polish girls tend to show off.In Germany the most provocatively dressed girl I saw was a polka who rode bicycle with half or more of her ass out of her trousers in the centre of the city not seeming to mind at all.Some days ago I saw a polka in similar trousers heading to polish area(I hope not to the church).Of course it is not like Ukraina where you can see women with fishnet blouses and no bra.

How did you know she was a Polka?

she was wearing a polka dot blouse.

exiled seems to know everything about slavic girls and culture.i didn't know prn movies can be so educational...

I know she was polka because I asked her.After seeing so many German girls you prefer to work than to occupy with them,they are erection killers,one reason for western superiority.

Some of people I know were in "Polish-other" relationships.
Many western man are more "reserved" and well-mannered. They treat woman with respect. They ask for taking her hand instead of Polish common "no daj łapę".

Some polish guys are "simple": "die your hair bacause you look awful", "I can't look at you in this white jacket"

They look at details like tips or ugly died hair in strange colour and then criticise. Some of them notice ugliness or just her "shape": "ale szprycha" in the contrary to many foreigners who notice beauty and who can (have a skill) to look also at their faces.

I sometimes think that not many Polish guys look at womens' faces, even if they do it they are not very good at it. Not everybody of course. I think that not every of them treat woman with respect.

So, what do you I find difficult? First thing is respect. Many western guys win at start with Polish jerks just saying: "Would you mind if I called you?" instead of "Dasz numer maleńka? "Second thing is mentality, I mean especially a part of it called "independence". Polish women are upbringing in an "cliche": ", you are "for" marriage and for "having children" and "for" being a good wife, what in fact means "you should deserve for a man to become his and your kids' servant". I think that many Polish women are submissive and even don't realise it.

Converting from being "typical" Polish woman into self-sufficient woman who realise her dreams and passions might be difficult. Facing with independence, reach and full of adventure life and other priorities than family and devoting often all effort to family life is difficult.

So, to sum up: mentality and values.

Actually I find the remarks of polish guys in this regard quite precious since they tend to improve the appearance of woemn by talking straight to her.One Czech woman expressed her disgust for fat women wearing mini skirts and revealing clothes telling that in Czech Republic this would never happen since even the brother of the girl would criticize her and not allow her to come out like this if fat.Unfortunately the West is so pusssy-driven that men have their tongues tied fearing the hysteria.

Its lovely! I've never been treated so well :)
Language can sometimes be a problem, but only seldom.
I don't think any relationships are perfect, as someone has already said...

obviously you must deserve it:)


hm, it made me think of homeless people

I've had more from my Polish other half than Ive ever had from any Scotsman....a helluva lot more respect,for starters. Not saying all Scots are disrespectful....think i just attracted the nutters lol ;) Love my gorgeous man to bits, when we started dating he knew within weeks I was "the one"....& I felt the same. Whats for you,won't go by you! Regardless of nationality!

Plenty of Scottish men are disrespectful but men and people anywhere are. Why did you go for Scottish men anyway?

Natalka seems to be scottish.

Scotland is pretty multicultural ;)

'I'm a Scottish lady, brought up in Spain but now back in Scotland'

By Natalka.