maybe this isn't the best place for you?
I meant this forum, Warlord. As a joke. Don't take it personally.
I have some Mexican friends, Tony and Elizabeth, 4 children. Very nice people.
My friends in California adopted two children from Mexico.
It's not where you're from, but who you are.
But you have to understand, that the older generation is not used to this. You will have to convince them that you love their daughter and that she will be happy with you.
Because they worry.