my polish girlfriend says she going to leave me if i dont buy her a engagment ring been together for two years and say no to sex before marriage but we had it before
First thing to do is read this back to yourself, what would you advise me if i posted this on a public forum??
You would probably think 'christ i cannot believe that guy is thinking of buying that girl a ring, i mean she is holding him to ransom, is that the sign of a good/sound/firm relationship??'
of course the answer is 'NO' what she is saying is 'our relationship depends on this ring and this ring only' she is not taking into consideration any other element of your relationship, emotion, trust, affection, spending time together, moral/vocal/physical support.............. the list is so long.
I'm not one to hide my point of view mate and in saying that i would advise you go find yourself a girl who wants to be with you for the right reasons, this girl sounds like a total idiot if a relationship to her depends on an object!!!!! rather than the person!!!!!
I think this is a warning you should not ignore, if this is how she is now, imagine what it could be like when/before you get/are married!!!!