he told me that he lied from day 1 and that I'm desperate and ugly.
I have a great idea: in retaliation, tell him he has a tiny penis and add that you had to fake all orgasms. That will make him less complacent and self-satisfied.
he told me to go to opole to meet him,
He can`t have been a Pole then. Opole region has a large German minority. He must have been German. Simple.
I'm female, I just named it after Rainman.
That proves some mental imbalance - you are not sure if you are a male or a female. It might have been the reason why he dropped you.