Here are some red flags I have noticed:
Hello guys :-) I need serious answers to this, please. So we're in love, about to be engaged (As he says) after a month of knowing each other, 24/7 talking, spending time together, etc.. However, I chose not to sleep with him (He is Polish but has been in the U.S. more than 1/2 his life), not until after the marriage - This has always been by principle. He told me he's "going to wait forever" but I'm afraid, with how super nice he's been treating me, I might just give in, omg!!! It's so difficult because he is really so romantic and the kindest man I have ever met! Are most Polish men so 'spiritually' romantic?He made me fall for him ... I feel I can tell him anything under the sun and he will still have undying admiration for me just as well. He seems to really want a productive future for both of us as he shares plans and ideas a lot on how we will live our lives together. How will my Polish Misiu react or what would he think if I start to keep a distance first so I can 'hold up' until well, marriage. Likewise, he could also just be 'leading me on' to marriage to get me to bed ...
It sounds too intense, obsessive, unreal and too perfect. Something is up.
You have only known him for ONE month and you are planing his life with him. I would SLOW down and start thinking what YOU really want.
He seems to be a good player because he sounds to perfect. There is not such a thing as a perfect person, so be careful because you are living in a fairly tale land for now.
Maybe he is working so hard on you because you are a challenge (don't want to have sex before marriage). It seems that he is succeeding in "breaking" your defenses down.
I hope I am wrong.