Met a Polish girl on the Internet, and I'm soon off to meet her...

we have been talking now for almost 6 months on msn and skype, and during the summer we talked almost everyday and couple of hours a day! it wasnt a dating site i found her on, and when i contacted her it was just for fun and i didnt expect much really. But we really started liking each other though, and we switched phone numbers, and have been sending sms to each other alot aswell...

We told each other that we didnt want anyone else, and im faithful to her, even if we live in a different country and have never met in real life for such a long time. She tells me the same and couldnt think of anyone else... Can i trust her on this? I know that im a nice guy, and she seems to be a nice girl too, but i cant figure her out completely though, and im very careful.

To descripe her a little... she is 22 years (im 23) a libra, she is a very social girl and loves babies and talking alot... she could work as a nanny i suppose :P she told me that she can be a bit loud though, and sometimes rebellous, and can be full of nerves. Her best friend lives in london, and she loves her more than anything (i can imagine they scream like little girls when they meet) hmm.. she LOVES beer! and singing and dancing... and laughing and having a good time is what she loves too. I think she is very easily amused ...

so do you recognize this personality ? i have no experience with polish girls in general, and i need advice before i meet her... something i need to be careful with? im a rather sensitive guy, and she probably isnt, and i know she has only had 3 "bad guys" before me (as she describes it) but she never was in love before... i dont know if i should be worried or what... but she IS very charming though...

i think she has told every family member and friends about me, she did that almost right in the beginning!... her aunt even greated me on webcam once :P (in polish though)

Can this work out? i really wanna know how she thinks, but i have the feeling she wants me to take the lead and let me decide... :S

Thank you for help

I'm not a fan of Internet dating, but good luck.

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Well......I suppose best thing to do would be to get yourself overthere and see for yourself. Honestly it will save alot of time, worry and maybe heartache in the future. Cut to the chase me ladee !!! No time like the present ! ( clean socks and underwear don't forget, best behaviour etc !!)

Maybe it works out, maybe it doesn't. The only way to find out is to meet her and see. But of course you should be prepared for the possibility that you might get your heart broken. Life is not fun if we don't take any risks.

It matter's little if you have had any experience with Polish girl's or not,all the important equipment is in the same place,if you are a nice guy and sensitive(your words) well stop it,nice guy's alway's finish last and are treated as a mark not a man,this is not just in Poland,you will be the friend with a credit card.

yeah, meeting guys on the internet and spending hours chatting with strangers via messager is extremaly fcuking social. get life people


absolutely. after reading these few lines of bollokcs i can say i feel like i know the girl for all my life


could be a pedophile


blabbermouth b... these are the worst kind


loud childish and probably stupid


straight way to be fat alcoholic cvnt

good luck tho. youll need it

I hate to point this out Mr Mc, but you're a bloke and you did exactly the above :p (only lets substitute messenger with PF)

are you saying that i spend hours every day talking bulshit with someone i dont know? bollocks. i dont even like anyone here (:

Liar! You wrote beautiful poetry for me!


Hmmm...You spend less time here these days...

What the fu*k, thanks for the help everybody !!!

You're welcome, feel free to come back and tell us about your visit.

ShelleyS
i dont know.. i somehow regret that i made this thread

A friendly advice:
Try to be a little less sensitive, that will decrease the risk that you will get your heart broken.

I wish you good luck (and I mean it)!

nope...


at some point, we all do...

Oh come on, stay strong :p only one person replayed with a pile of rubbish, the rest tried their best to help you.. good luck with the lady..

Life is too short for regrets


Wise words.

SzwedwPolsce

thanks,
but whats wrong with being sensitive? im not crying every now and then if you think so... im just caring and careful thats all

Which is really lovely...but if you go over there just enjoy your time and be happy, if she decides she doesnt want to see you ever again..you have some fond memories.

ShelleyS

yea but i dont think she will do that, but anyways.. i guess there isnt much to talk about until i met her

liquidlove

That is so sweet,but if you find yourself in a bar and you are buying drink's for all her girlfriend's and a couple of bad boy's(your words again) then remember what you have been told and leave,that was a expensive round,but if you are fed by her family,and you have a drink with her and her alone,then maybe i am wrong,i somehow doubt it though.

Senach

no im not that stupid, i know my limits.. besides, we are meeting alone in krakow (but she lives in wroclaw) so its gonna be only us for a weekend

i doubt that she is with me for the money... i dont even have a job at the moment and she knows that... but if i suspect that she wants me for the money then i will leave her right away, but i doubt it, we'll see

If you go there with an open mind , and an open heart , you will be ok...it will either work out great , or not , you won,t know till you met her...

Just bear in mind you will be a stanger in Poland , not being able to speak the language , depending on her to make sure you don,t get into any tricky situations , so if it does not work out , or worse still she does not show up , you need to make sure you have a back up plan....

wildrover
yes i thought of that too, thats why i wanted to meet her in krakow because i know a friend over there which is my backup, she wanted to meet me in lodz at first cause she wanted to meet a friend over there too.. but i didnt like the idea that she would be with her friend at the same time she is with me, but she agreed to meet me in krakow and we will be all by ourself

and she already talked with her boss about a free day from her job, and was looking at some hostels in krakow.. i have the feeling she will show up

oh god, this sounds like just about any girl, more like a teenager though rather than a 22 year old to be honest. you obviously find it quirky and charming so you never know - it might work, where are you from?


aww is that because nobody likes you? it must suck big time that females in the real world as well as females online really don't find you that attractive, i'm not surprised Shelley wasn't interested, as well as at least one more female member of this precious forum :). i know, i know :)

your comments here were uncalled for and pretty horrible. you hardly post anything at all and then you come up with a load of insults out of the blue, do you get off on that? you're pathetic, and if meeting people online is such an unsociable thing to do then why don't you remove yourself off the internet for good and spare us those bitter little coments written in retarded English?

I am sure she will mate , but there is no harm to have a back up plan....Saying that , i rode my Harley all the way to Ukraine to meet a lady...didn,t have a back up plan , but then i am the sort of person that can improvise any any disaster...

On route to Ukraine it rained all the way , my mobile got wet , so i was not able to confirm i was on my way....When i finally got to her flat , cold and wet , i found she was not in...because i had not rung , she thought i had stopped at a hotel on route...she went to her mums...i wound up sleeping in the street all night next to my bike....

Happily , i was able to borrow a mobile from one of her neighbours the next day , and we did meet up...Things can go wrong you never even thought of.......

oh yeah, forgot about our romance.


waste of time


well said. thank you britney (:

liquidlove

where are you from you never mentioned. this is almost likely to be her fantasy relationship and the type of personality u described is quite immature and will start to grow up on your nerves, test love before getting too involved. She might be with a pure heart but she cud be immature and might loose interest soon. but it can be other way.

Women get sexually mature before mentally

sexually mature age can be 13 years
mentally mature starts after 25 years, by 35 they are fully mature.

Men sexually mature age = 16 to 18 yrs
Men mentally mature age starts 20 fully mature by 35.
these are approximation of ages it can vary little from person to person.
so if you are a sensitive person keep this in mind

im from sweden

Man mentally mature before women? bollocks, you've got a very little knowledge of life there romeo..

Surely men never mentally mature. We are always big kids!