Good boy, women arent to be trusted.
If this is the truth about all women, then why are they always going on about trust being the all-important factor in their relationships? (I actually know better, don't worry!)
I m not surprised, it's a nice thing but very often guys are nice when they are with a woman and then they are complaining that women expect from them to do some things.
I can't speak for every guy out there, but with me it works both ways. I won't demand anything, but I do expect a few things. I don't like demands. I will do it for her because I want to, so she doesn't have to order me around or anything. If I'm not aware of the fact - for whatever reason - I should be doing something for her I'm obviously not doing, then she should simply ask. Not complain afterwards, or complain three months later, like they usually do. You girls have a mouth on you and you can talk, right?
[quote=Mr Grunwald]Because then he won't be able to tell other people that he is a "Gentleman" :) It's all about reputation ;)
I'm a black sheep. I don't care about reputation.
Taking care of someone = nice, being ur mum =bad.
Yes, very bad, and being someone's dad is also pretty bad.
Normally when a guy wants to pay i let him; i can imagine that makes them feel nice as well (sometimes) that they may think about themselves as gentlemen etc.
Not exactly. I just want my girl to know I value her company, and that I don't want to take her presence for granted. (If she insists on paying for herself, I will find something else to buy for her, don't worry!) I couldn't care less if I'm a gentleman or not, because I don't need those kind of ego-strokes.
But so often a guy pays when he is with a girl and then he complains about that. It;s like split personality - if u dont want to pay then why are u paying and why u dont let a woman to pay her own? i dont understand this.
I don't understand it either. To me that's something a doormat or a yes-man would do. (Just like I said about women, guys also have a mouth on them and they can talk!) If you don't want to do something, then you shouldn't do it, and if you think something is wrong or you disagree with her then you should tell her at the moment. (Or when the situation allows it.) Not three months later. Simple.
Even more effective is to tell him that u had chlamydia lol
Newsflash: We have doctors, medicines and condoms, and we also have guys who don't care about chlamydia.
Totally agree, quite a few guys i know told me that here in Britain women hate it when you hold doors for them or offer to take their coat, they instantly snap and screech "I can do it myself!!!"
My answer would be: Fine, have it your way.
Those women are crazy; but i prefer to avoid the whole paying-etc things coz of the reasons i said above.
I like crazy. Well, I gave you one reason to let it slide? Besides, I will accept a drink or something else from a woman whenever I'm broke, (Although I usually refuse to date anyone when I'm broke, haha!) so it's not like I'm too proud or anything.
I saw a little scene in town recently and this Polish girl on a day out shopping with her (very smelly) Middle Eastern looking bf trotting on behind him in her little heels asking him to wait and he just barked something at her and carried on chatting on the phone to his mate. Lovely!
I guess the girl in question didn't have too much self-respect? If you do this in some regions in Holland, she will either kick your ass on the spot, or slap you in the face with her handbag, stab you with a fork as soon as you'll get home, refuse to have sex with you for three months, cheat on you as soon and with as many guys as she can, trade you for someone else as soon as she has the opportunity to do so, or she will simply dump you on the same spot you're standing.
That was just rude. You can be on partners'-like level with your boyfriend and still he can treat you with respect, the same about girl. It doesnt mean that you would be some kind of slave.
Well, walking ahead or infront of your girl is a no-no. If you wish to treat her with respect then you'll walk right beside her. (Besides, you can't see what she's doing behind your back since women aren't to be trusted, isn't that right, shush?)
Like I say we all have a role in life .... :)
Let me guess, I'm the court's Jester?
Yes but if a woman offers to pay her own then if he doesnt really want to pay for two then why not let her :S and then blame women that they are gold diggers and that all they want from men is money :S
I think it's not necessarily the money they're after, but I think that if men say these kind of things they mean that most girls are after status more likely. I think most girls want to be able to tell their girlfriends they've pulled a guy who manages. I think most girls want to be proud of their guy, and take pride in dating such men for themselves. You know what I mean? (I think older girls would probably value personality a bit more though, depends on their experiences I guess.)
blachary is a state of mind...
You'll have to excuse my Dutch there, I guess I'm just going to pretend to know what it means..
Definitely saying something bad about computer games... a big no no for me.
Yeah, they always complain about guys wasting time on computer games, but ofcourse most of those girls can be found on facebook all damn day! Ha! Now I want to hear them say something *really* clever?
;PYes, long post. I guess women are my favourite subject, sorry!