Are all Polish men Psychos?
If you ask a question like that I'd suggest you see a shrink to see whether you might be a psycho.
You just can't make a reasonable answer to illogical question... If all Polish men were psychos then that would make all Polish children sick-poor-bastards; this is not the case in Poland. Polish people know their characteristics to be with a reputation of a well cultured society, and since it’s quite disadvantaged in terms of employment, most of its third generation is highly educated, and who can afford to pay for all of that, the countless asylums of Polish psycho men?
Such question reflects aniol's manner of thinking illogically, and she admits:
Maybe I am the psycho and have misinterpreted his friendly flirty nature as being somehting that its not.
But how do I get this idiot out of my head? For some reason I have this weird irrational obsession with the bad boy despite what I am finding out about him...
Perhaps her class was a group therapy, or some counseling session in English speaking society, and this guy is not so Polish if she claims of him to be attentive and outspoken in English.
Just because his parents are Polish, yet he doesn't speak Polish,-doesn't make him Polish.
you should ask other people if your questions make sense, if you try to be more reasonable in your thinking, then you may avoid in getting “weird irrational obsessions”.