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DO POLISH MEN DATE OLDER WOMEN?


ArturSzastak 3 | 593
7 Mar 2007 #61
if you've spent a lot of time together during those 6 months.

Like King Kong and that white girl??? :)
filmcasting 3 | 51
7 Mar 2007 #62
I was thinking more like Batman and Robin. :)
ArturSzastak 3 | 593
7 Mar 2007 #63
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. That kind of relationship. Gotchya :)
OP LATINA 3 | 73
7 Mar 2007 #64
so point is in love, trust, not age

I think that's the way most people feel and that's the way it should be but I think that my Boy Toy is very worried about our age difference. He is too polite to say it but I could feel it.
filmcasting 3 | 51
7 Mar 2007 #65
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. That kind of relationship. Gotchya

I was only kidding of course.
OP LATINA 3 | 73
7 Mar 2007 #67
was never into younger guys, I was growing up with my 8 yrs older brother and with his friends. But sometimes life is so surprising and you never know what it can bring to you even if you think that you know everything about life.

SOOO TRUE!!!! This is exactly how I feel. People are so judgmental. Why are you going out with a YOUNGER GUY omiigoooddd!! I never intended it to be so. It just happened. It's not like I woke up one morning and said today I'm going to find a young guy to go out with. It did not happen like that. But people have a way of making you feel like you are doing something sooo wrong!
filmcasting 3 | 51
7 Mar 2007 #68
I think that's the way most people feel and that's the way it should be but I think that my Boy Toy is very worried about our age difference. He is too polite to say it but I could feel it.

Enjoy him to the fullest. No relationship is guaranteed to last. And you'll regret it if you don't just have fun.
OP LATINA 3 | 73
7 Mar 2007 #69
i thought you were looking for a Polish man?
or have you got back with the man that left you for a stripper?

Yes we are back together. But now it's very different because I'm angry and confused. It's not the way it used to be.
King Sobieski 2 | 714
7 Mar 2007 #70
you got back with a guy that left you for another woman...this is getting like the 'bold and the beautiful'.

i dont mean this rudely, but have some respect for yourself, drop his arse like a bad bean pie.
filmcasting 3 | 51
7 Mar 2007 #71
Yes we are back together. But now it's very different because I'm angry and confused. It's not the way it used to be.

Why did you take him back if he did that to you?
OP LATINA 3 | 73
7 Mar 2007 #72
By then, yes, you're developing real feelings, if you've spent a lot of time together during those 6 months.

I'm pretty sure about my feeling but how about him? Do you think he is just in lust or IN LOVE???
ArturSzastak 3 | 593
7 Mar 2007 #73
Why did you take him back if he did that to you?

Probably good in the sack. He is Polish you know :)

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On a serious note, why did you take him back???
filmcasting 3 | 51
7 Mar 2007 #74
i dont mean this rudely, but have some respect for yourself, drop his arse like a bad bean pie.

I have to agree with King Sobieski even though I don't know what a bean pie is. I don't want to sound harsh but my opinion is that the guy already showed you how he felt when he dumped you for the stripper. I don't see this as a sign that he loves you. Maybe I'm wrong.
OP LATINA 3 | 73
7 Mar 2007 #75
you got back with a guy that left you for another woman...this is getting like the 'bold and the beautiful'.

i dont mean this rudely, but have some respect for yourself, drop his arse like a bad bean pie.

It's easier said than done. I know I really should not, but tell me you guys never, ever forgave your girl/guy if they cheated on you? You guys have never done that?
filmcasting 3 | 51
7 Mar 2007 #76
I dropped him like a hot potato and never looked back. And it was hard as hell but sometimes you just deserve better no matter how much it hurts. But it's your decision.
OP LATINA 3 | 73
7 Mar 2007 #77
You are very strong. I wish I was that strong. I'm going through really mixed feelings and I am very hurt. I have been thinking of totally breaking it off with him though but it IS VERY HARD!
Huegel 1 | 296
7 Mar 2007 #78
L. Honestly, I think it all boils down to the answer to two questions.
Can you forgive what he did?
Can you trust him again?

If yes, then i'd say you are the strong one, if not, then it would probably save you pain and heartache in the long run to say goodbye sooner rather than later.

Just my 0.02€

Good luck whatever. :)
filmcasting 3 | 51
7 Mar 2007 #79
You are very strong. I wish I was that strong. I'm going through really mixed feelings and I am very hurt. I have been thinking of totally breaking it off with him though but it IS VERY HARD!

I can understand. You should definitely not do anything until you're sure. In my case it was painful but I was sure that I was not going to be in that situation. Maybe even time will make the decision for you.
King Sobieski 2 | 714
7 Mar 2007 #80
It's easier said than done. I know I really should not, but tell me you guys never, ever forgave your girl/guy if they cheated on you? You guys have never done that?

i have never had someone cheat on me but if they did i dont think i would take them back.
OP LATINA 3 | 73
7 Mar 2007 #81
I hope not for your sake, but don't be so sure of yourself.
King Sobieski 2 | 714
7 Mar 2007 #82
im very sure of myself...it is the lowest of the low.
sapphire 22 | 1,241
8 Mar 2007 #83
Like King Kong and that white girl???

do you think they ever consummated that relationship?
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,506
8 Mar 2007 #84
but tell me you guys never, ever forgave your girl/guy if they cheated on you?

quickest way to end a relationship - there is NO excuse... i wouldnt forgive and i wouldnt expect to be forgiven...
RazZ 1 | 180
8 Mar 2007 #85
i would forgive but never forget.
BubbaWoo 33 | 3,506
8 Mar 2007 #86
nemo me impune lacessit
Jeska - | 11
8 Mar 2007 #87
Wow if I were left for another girl I'm not sure if I could take it. When I was a lil teenybopper this freaky x-dressing dude was getting all scandelous on me and started dating some other girl (LOL she was his mirror image!!) basically and I didn't feel he was worth fighting for.

Some people you feel to let go and others just stick with you forever, scars and all! It takes a very strong person to realize the pain and somehow manage to lie to yourself and say it wasn't worth it enough and just move on.

I can understand why you so much love your polish boy. The ones I've met here in the US have serious mommy complexes!! They can be SO alluring!!

Interesting question you have about would you forgive partner if he cheated on you. I would probably drag him through hell and back, I wouldn't just let ppl hurt me without them knowing about it!! F*cking up changes a life forever - he will never forget that! and I DO think there is something humble about telling your mate you've been with someone else. Leaving them for doing what they need to do to mature and realize themselves is kind of sad, but a personal decision. It's natural to want to be with whomever your heart desires. Why is it wrong if they do not restrain themselves from their object of desire? That's up to you! I only hope you (Latina) are doing something to rectify his wrongdoing!! Make him think twice about fooling around with u ever again!

Lol, the pervading love / lust debate! It's terrible. I often question myself what is the difference between love and obsession?!
sapphire 22 | 1,241
8 Mar 2007 #88
everyone is different.. some will forgive and others wont.. my partner's wife would take him back tomorrow.. even though he left her for me and we've been living together for 18 months and seeing each other for 2 years. Personally, I wouldnt forgive because you can never forget..its always there at the back of your mind.
RazZ 1 | 180
8 Mar 2007 #89
My girlfriend left me after 12 year of relationship she just said that she doesn’t love me anymore. And that what I want to think. But the reality she might have found some1 else. I think if you love some so dear you should do everything for them even if it means letting them go. But the memory always remains. And still hurts
sapphire 22 | 1,241
8 Mar 2007 #90
I think if you love some so dear you should do everything for them even if it means letting them go.

thats very true. Very very hard to do in reality, but you cant force someone to stay with you if they are no longer in love.. and who knows, they may come back to you...as the song goes.. if you love someone set them free.. Good luck to you Razz


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