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nycvibes123  1 | 2  
22 Nov 2009 /  #1
Hi, Jak sie macz... this is my first post... am an Indian guy in US... met a Polish girl in New York City and am totally attracted to her charm and beauty... I think am in love with her... we chat on facebook, had drinks with her a couple o' times... my heart wants her but she very likely doesn't have same feelings for me (its obvious coz we just met some times and am like a stranger to her)... ever since I met her, I've been trying to find out more about Poland... I visited some Polish/ukrainian restaurants in the city and ate polish food like pierogi, borshct, goulash, stroganoff, kielbasa, blintzes etc (you wont believe I was a 100% pure vegetarian all my life, but started eating non-veg since a year back)... these days am trying to learn basic polish language by listening to podcasts and videos... in short am trying to figure out the various aspects of polish culture (love changes you completely)... am not sure if the relationship will work out but so far I've enjoyed being exposed to polish culture I was ignorant about and love to discover new things...

Thank you.
curlyspy007  - | 93  
22 Nov 2009 /  #2
dude, slow down man do you know what you sound like?.....
Moonlighting  31 | 233  
22 Nov 2009 /  #3
It's fascinating to see the impact of love. Probably the best way to discover another person's culture. Polish cooking and culture have delights. I bet you were a vegetarian if you're Indian, and you eat meat now? Hehe ;-) Beware that this girl doesn't eat YOU ;-) Well, good luck anyway. But be carefully, it gives you wings but the landing could be more of a crash if you misunderstand her intentions about you. Anyway, you should enjoy as much as you can those moments spent with her, as it seems they bring you a lot of positive things...
OP nycvibes123  1 | 2  
23 Nov 2009 /  #4
hehe... well i've had some crash landings b4... so I dont mind having another one... am just enjoying the flight ;) it feels good to enjoy the small things in life with a positive outlook... btw this forum is really kool... discovered a lot from these threads...
BrutalButcher  - | 386  
23 Nov 2009 /  #5
curlyspy007
He is just excited.
usmiech  1 | 22  
18 Jul 2010 /  #6
nycvibes123

I would like hear more about your story!!!
seem interesting and sweet to me !!!

I do also like a girl from Poland, its just I am very shy I couldnt ask any girl out so far!!!!

I would like to know what is happening?
enkidu  6 | 611  
18 Jul 2010 /  #7
am an Indian guy in US... met a Polish girl in New York City

Of course - you realise she doesn't belongs to any caste? She is not even a Dalit.
I wonder what your family thinks about that?
mvefa  5 | 591  
22 Jul 2010 /  #8
Maybe he is not that interested on what his family thinks, you know there are more types of hindus than the ones in the Uk..
enkidu  6 | 611  
22 Jul 2010 /  #9
It may be... Quite sad actually.
He already started to eat flesh and become more "European" (or even "Polish"). All of it for this strange girl. I wouldn't want to be this guy when his mother get to know the truth.
8888  
22 Jul 2010 /  #10
I think you are in love with your fantasy. Don't get too excited buddy.
It's about who she is, you are not fishing here.
Believe me, Polish chicks are generally very friendly and nice compares to American chicks.
That doesn't mean she falls in love so easily. Good luck!
mvefa  5 | 591  
22 Jul 2010 /  #11
Quite sad actually.

Not really, it is very romantic...trying to know about the other's culture,
It's is very good actually, get to know something esle than your own, it is beneficial, you should try it!

I wouldn't want to be this guy when his mother get to know the truth.

maybe she won't mind :) how do you know
jablko  - | 104  
22 Jul 2010 /  #12
maybe she won't mind :)

why should he care anyway, its his life
Sokrates  8 | 3335  
22 Jul 2010 /  #13
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There's several steps to successfull relationship here.

1. Take pictures of her from hiding.
2. Cover your basement walls, ceiling and floor with said pictures.
3. Slip her a rape pill.
4. When she wakes up in your basement tell her how much you love her and show the pics as proof.

Slow down captain creepy, its nice to be excited but if she's just friendly and cheerfull you'll mess up major time.
enkidu  6 | 611  
22 Jul 2010 /  #14
Not really, it is very romantic...trying to know about the other's culture,
It's is very good actually, get to know something esle than your own, it is beneficial, you should try it!

Yeah - agree. To know other cultures is good. But to throw out your own so easily - it's not necessary a good thing.
cakirom  - | 3  
8 Aug 2010 /  #15
It is not important that you like her, important thing is she like you. She do not like you,so keep away from her.
polishhunter  1 | 15  
15 Aug 2010 /  #16
my heart wants her but she very likely doesn't have same feelings for me ever since I met her, [quote=curlyspy007]ever since I met her, I've been trying to find out more about Poland... I visited some Polish/ukrainian restaurants in the city and ate polish food like pierogi, borshct, goulash, stroganoff, kielbasa, blintzes etc (you wont believe I was a 100% pure vegetarian all my life, but started eating non-veg since a year back).

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I am indian doc too in UK, NYCVIBS this was me 2 yrs back when i meet a polish woman, one thing we indians lack is confidence, i have to say alot of the polish women like our skin, food and culture- what they dont like is lack of confidence, being needy and doing too much to prove your love.

2 yrs down the lane, i am confident, with my polish love(though its not the same girl- she rejected me, i had hard times, womenised polish girls for sometime to feel the revenge and then now back to normal). but its amazing its like the indians girls without the bad qualities, like the british girls minus the arrogance but with commitment to family life.
vetala  - | 381  
15 Aug 2010 /  #17
If she wanted to date someone who knows Polish culture, then she would date a Pole. If you want to catch her attention it would be better to show her how interesting is YOUR country and culture.

No self-respecting woman will date a guy who keeps showing her that she's somehow better and more interesting than him. This sort of behaviour only reasserts her belief that she deserves more.
polishhunter  1 | 15  
15 Aug 2010 /  #18
Vetala- you nailed it, this was what i was trying to say to him, in indian culuture the man express his love showing self suffering, putting woman on the pedestal(that she is an angel and he is ordinary) unfortunately it doesnt work in a practical world(even back in india at present).

But i wish this guy is true to what he is saying not just trying to score this blonde and then marry a mom's choice bride from india.
Midas  1 | 571  
15 Aug 2010 /  #19
But i wish this guy is true to what he is saying not just trying to score this blonde and then marry a mom's choice bride from india.

Typical indian/paki male behaviour.

I personally prefer Indian women to Polish women.
usmiech  1 | 22  
16 Aug 2010 /  #20
I personally prefer Indian women to Polish women.

well all he best with ur indian woma the
and let us know once u have experince with modern indian girls!
Midas  1 | 571  
17 Aug 2010 /  #21
and let us know once u have experince with modern indian girls!

Already have quite a bit of it.

None of them were raised in the old country though.
southern  73 | 7059  
17 Aug 2010 /  #22
Indians are totally unattractive.Blacks although some have beautiful bodies are unattractive as well.I think only very desperate whites can go for them.It is a pity some polish males have gone this path of despair(I suppose from what I hear about the UK).
Midas  1 | 571  
17 Aug 2010 /  #23
Indians are totally unattractive

- quit clowning, for real.

Indian women can be breathtakingly beautiful.
southern  73 | 7059  
17 Aug 2010 /  #24
Indian women can be breathtakingly beautiful.

Then you have your way open.No competition indeed.
Kasha83  - | 8  
17 Aug 2010 /  #25
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Indians are totally unattractive.Blacks although some have beautiful bodies are unattractive as well.I think only very desperate whites can go for them.It is a pity some polish males have gone this path of despair(I suppose from what I hear about the UK).

I think that being attracted to somebody is a very individual matter and does not depend only on physical appearance...I believe there are more reasons why you feel attracted to somebody... having read your comment I could not refrain myself from saying that I really feel sorry for you if you do not see any other apsects except the 'bodily' one
southern  73 | 7059  
17 Aug 2010 /  #26
I could not refrain myself from saying that I really feel sorry for you if you do not see any other apsects except the 'bodily' one

You should not feel sorry for me since this is the aspect I appreciate in Polki.Just kidding.Anyway it is the combo of course but there needs to be a physical attraction first.

I hope you were not involved with brown race or whatever.
Seanus  15 | 19666  
17 Aug 2010 /  #27
Southern, India is thriving which is more than can be said for Greece. Plus, you are hardly the whitest of people I've ever seen. Why even talk about a 'brown' race?
southern  73 | 7059  
17 Aug 2010 /  #28
India is thriving

Not exactly.I see them here and they are not thriving particularly their best meal is still the curry.

Plus, you are hardly the whitest of people

Still white though a bit tanned by the heavy sun.Come to the south and you will become tanned as well.My polish gf is much more tanned as well(and sun friendly as well).
Seanus  15 | 19666  
17 Aug 2010 /  #29
Curry is pretty diverse and some of the best food in the world. Anyway, I was talking about their industrial successes.

I don't tan, southern, I burn. You need a certain skin type for that.
southern  73 | 7059  
17 Aug 2010 /  #30
I don't tan, southern, I burn

You need to tan slowly.

You need a certain skin type for that.

Have you seen polish blondynki tanned by solarium?

I was talking about their industrial successes

When I see a girl I am usually not attracted by their industrial success.

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