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Polish girls attitudes towards sex.


TripTic 3 | 95
26 Apr 2007 #91
Not all women cheat

..but most of them do... unfortnatelly :(
angel eyes 1 | 131
26 Apr 2007 #92
but most of them do

iv never cheated either but TripTic most men cheat and i reckon if people were honest theres a far higher percentage of men than women
Goonie 8 | 242
26 Apr 2007 #93
Were you just joking? I've never cheated on anyone before and I had many opportunities. Not all women cheat.

i was :D
sparrow 2 | 243
26 Apr 2007 #94
Quoting: Goonie
all women cheat... it's a fact of life.

Were you just joking? I've never cheated on anyone before and I had many opportunities. Not all women cheat.

Maybe you erased all your memories about it? ;-D
shewolf 5 | 1,077
26 Apr 2007 #95
I definitely was tempted but I fought hard not to cheat.
angel eyes 1 | 131
26 Apr 2007 #96
I fought hard not to cheat

Everyone gets tempted at some point in their life but it really shouldn't be hard if you truely love the person your with.
shewolf 5 | 1,077
26 Apr 2007 #97
It gets hard when he's too busy for you and you find yourself alone and other men come along who act like they're dying to be with you. That's why I can understand why people cheat. A relationship takes work.
angel eyes 1 | 131
27 Apr 2007 #98
shewolf

I can understand that situation yes its a valid point. this would mean you'd be desperately unhappy and need to point out how your feeling to your partner and if there not willing to talk or sort things out it probably means the end is near so i would end things and then choose pastures anew with that somebody who wants my attention.
shewolf 5 | 1,077
27 Apr 2007 #99
if there not willing to talk or sort things out it probably means the end is near so i would end things and then choose pastures anew with that somebody who wants my attention.

That's true but not everyone believes in just throwing relationships away that easily. Some people are in marriages and there are children involved. It's not always as simple as demanding that the other person pay more attention to you or else.
southern
28 Apr 2007 #100
If you feel that a polish girl cheats you,then probably she is actually cheating you.This is because
1.Polish girls are attractive and get many acquaintances
2.They always look for sth better
3.Many have more than one relationships simoultaneously or have a relationship but sleep occasionally with other men
4.Men intuition is almost always right.If you feel that she does sth,she probably does it.
However we should not complain since our chances of getting polish girls have to do with them cheating.
angel eyes 1 | 131
28 Apr 2007 #101
It's not always as simple as demanding that the other person pay more attention to you or else.

I understand this Shewolf i have been in this situation. In a sad loveless marriage with my son and spent the last 4 years of my marriage being deeply unhappy trying to talk and make things work but it takes 2 to work it out. If the other party is not willing then your wasting your precious time. I know i seem to be blunt and im sorry im trying to shorten a very long story is all. But in all my 13 years with my husband and everything i went through i had many an offer to stray and i can understand why the temptation was there. I never did as i loved my husband so much and look where my loyalty got me.He was the 1 straying all the time but i leave with my dignity intact.
mohdanu
28 Apr 2007 #102
but i leave with my dignity intact.

I have to salute such a lady.

1.Polish girls are attractive and get many acquaintances

Should it be a reason to cheat? I know many pretty women and many handsom men as well who had been faitful beside getting many acquaintances.

2.They always look for sth better

In which sense?
I know that Germans want to be the best, but that does not cause them to cheat their partner.

3.Many have more than one relationships simoultaneously or have a relationship but sleep occasionally with other men

I had never been in Poland. Is this true?
Zgubiony 15 | 1,554
28 Apr 2007 #103
If you feel that a polish girl cheats you,then probably she is actually cheating you.

I smell sth foul...and it must be all of this bullsh*t above me. Way to generalize!
Does being attractive really impact the amt. of friends you have? I'd think it would be more your character. Maybe this is your mentality.....boze, this is up there with some of the most rediculous shite i've ever witnessed in this forum :) way to make my day southern...lol
afterlife
28 Apr 2007 #104
believe me if woman not cheat man make sure that she is not woman. Not in Poland but in all over the world.Woman likes soft and love words so any man gives her this she will give him her body.Dont worry , I advice you to be with her becouse you will not see woman without cheatting.
angel eyes 1 | 131
28 Apr 2007 #105
Woman likes soft and love words so any man gives her this she will give him her body

Crap Crap and more...............Crap.......Whats wrong with some of you men.!
southern
28 Apr 2007 #106
I did not write that all polish girls are unfaithful.This would be stupid.I just suggested that polish girls who travel abroad get a lot of attention because they look a lot better than average local women.It is very possible that many men will try to pick up them.

I noticed in the airport polish women travelling abroad were far better looking than the average staying in Poland.This means that somehow they are selected based on their beauty.It maybe from boyw or from employers for better PR.So polish girls do look better on average and the ones outside Poland do on average look better than the ones staying in Poland.This leads to the possibility of many men intimidated to pick up them.Because many of them have been raised with strong family ethics they may refuse a lot of propositions.(unlike let us say russian girls).

The guy above is confused because of that.He does not understand why a strictly educated girl could cheat on him.If he had experienced more polish girls he would understand some things.It is difficult to explain in this forum because everything written about nationalitiew maybe regarded as pure racism while it is not that.Polish girls are much better than most girls from other nationalities.In fact the confused guy should understand that it was his fault that the polish girl left him,he lacked something essential or made some unforgivable mistakes.Or he did not see the girl for a time longer than two months and she is beautiful.
Zgubiony 15 | 1,554
28 Apr 2007 #107
So polish girls do look better on average and the ones outside Poland do on average look better than the ones staying in Poland.

This statement is making my eyes bleed.
miranda
28 Apr 2007 #108
good old forum
Zgubiony 15 | 1,554
28 Apr 2007 #109
If he had experienced more polish girls he would understand some things

Oh? Please explain :)

.......So polish girls do look better on average and the ones outside Poland do on average look better than the ones staying in Poland. LOL
mohdanu
28 Apr 2007 #110
I noticed in the airport polish women travelling abroad were far better looking than the average staying in Poland.

If you have accidently seen some beautiful polish ladies in the airport, that does not mean the average polish travelling look better than those staying there.

However, there are moments, I as a man, see all women prettier. :-)
southern
28 Apr 2007 #111
It is not difficult to explain.beautiful girls worldwide tend to gather in places that are richer.Probably in NYC there are the best looking girls.This is because girls are selected for jobs,marriage etc and one criterion is their appearance.The same is valid for Poland.

In Poznan which is a richer city than average polish the hot girls are in bigger proportion than let us say Katowice or even Wroclaw.I suspect that in cities like Olsztyn the appeance of girls will be worse.In Gdansk better.So polish girls who stay in richer european cities like London,Berlin tend to be more beautiful than the ones staying in Poland.This is not a natural law,they just have better opportunities abroad when they are beautiful and the beautiful ones are more likely to stay.That's all.

I am talking about physical appearance,not mental characteristics.Polite and cultured girls have also more chances to stay abroad but if they are beautiful and polite the chances are even better.What is absurd with that?
miranda
28 Apr 2007 #112
What is absurd with that?

you are really good at convincing yourself. As for everybody else ? Well........
suggestion: keep rereading what you wrote, after all it is a good passtime for some:)
Hueg - | 320
28 Apr 2007 #113
What is absurd with that?

Did you know you can drown in just one inch of water?

Yet more proof that being shallow can be dangerous. :)
southern
28 Apr 2007 #114
These opinions are not only mine.There are many who claim that the richer a place the more beautiful girls it attracts.For example where are the bet looking women in Ukraine?In Kiev.Because Kiev s by far the richest city in Ukraine.In Russia?Most beauties can be seen in Moscow.Outside Moscow not a big deal.In czech Republic?Prague,the most developed city with higher wages surpasses any other place.It is everywhere the same.

Beautiful girls tend to move to bigger and richer cities with more opportunities.
Polish people can be a little stubborn sometimes.
What I write is positive about polish girls.In my opinion they are not gold diggers,they are honest and reliable in far more extent than any other girls(for example czech,russian etc) and they make perfect wives.They are less materialistic demanding and more soul demanding,how to express that,more romantic.I mostly like polish girls.
MwHunk
28 Apr 2007 #115
Southern:

I want to know how can polish girls be better than other girls when they can cheat ? Imagine that she wanted something which he didn't give her or meet her often to get her to have sex with him

What do you define by "better" ? I think if they do cheat their dating partners or if they date multiple men at the same time looking for better deals , it shows poor ethics on her part and polish girls in general. It shows that they are cheap sluts if indeed its true.

The confused_guy may be stupid that he couldn't see all this. But nevertheless he might have seriously thought of a future with her. some guys in America do think of polish girls are cheap sluts who don't have an standard with respect to sex . They would sleep with anyone who would buy them dinner.
FISZ 24 | 2,116
28 Apr 2007 #116
some guys in America do think of polish girls are cheap sluts who don't have an standard with respect to sex

I've never heard anything like this said in America. Polish people don't have a reputation like that here in the US; however, I have heard a feew people from the UK say crap like this.
southern
28 Apr 2007 #117
MWHunk I think you make the mistake to judge slavic people by western standards.
Slavic morals are a lot different and sb needs a certain degree of understanding of slavic soul.Western option is more narrow minded,it is this or that.This is not exactly the case in slavic world.For example these people do not negotiate.There are no agreements,steps to take,prejudices etc.If a girl likes you,she will give plenty of love without terms.This is slavic mentality,concept of generosity.A western woman would not behave this way.On the other hand if she feels more attraction for sb else she may leave you more easily than in western world.This is regarded by westerners as moral instability and Slavs are blamed for this even from ninteenth century.However this instability is an igredient of the mentality that brings a man so easily close to a polish girl.I cannot express it very well.

Polish girls are judged as cheap because they do not demand materialistic compensations as much as girls from other nationalities.A russian girl will ask you for expensive present commonly from first date,a polish girl will take you to a cheap place and be thankful if you pay the bill.She appreciates much more every offer.I think it is totally unfair to call them cheap because of this decent characteristic.They are not cheap.They are simply not gold diggers certainly not to the extent that most russian and ukrainian girls are.And they will not sleep with you because you offered a dinner but because they like you.The russian or czech girl says what a stupid american,he thinks I am obliged to sleep with him if he offers me a dinner.
MwHunk
29 Apr 2007 #118
Southern:

It is surprising to me sleeping with other people while dating a person ( even with a commitment) is OK in slavic culture ! It is really amazing how the local guys can put up with that ****. I assume that not all girls are like that but as you said , Polish girls "do sleep with many guys" while dating.

Maybe she will cheat after she is married too. Any self respecting girl wouldn't do that here. Does it mean that slavic girls dont have moral standards? or sleeping with other people simultaneously is taken off their "moral dictionary" ???

Western women on the other hand are committed and they stay with their partner.I havent seen many cheating even if they are tempted.

Sorry I don't understand your way of thinking . Any guy here would say its bull_**** and dump the polish girl instantly if she is really sleeping with many guys.This is considered cheap , slutty behavior by any decent guy unless he is really sleazy. It is not acceptable .Maybe some guys (polish and others) are ok with it and hence their girls do such stuff without any issues :)

Does it mean that polish girls are not good dating/Marriage partners? it seems like they cant be .

If what you said is true, they would make up excellent hookers :D
southern
29 Apr 2007 #119
Again you do not understand.It seems you have never met slavic girls.
Let's say you meet a girl like Eva Herzigova or Sklenarikova in their youth.Let's suppose she is western.What are your chances with her?Sirow.Because she will have been commited to a guy before you met her.And she will not give you a chance.She will have been commited because she probably would have drawn a lot of attention and aggresive american or european guys possibly better than you will have tried to pick up her.By the time you meet her she is unavailable.

Let's suppose the same girl is slavic.Possibly she will have drawn the same(usually less in slavic countries) attention and she will have a boyfriend.However it is more likely that she will give you a chance than in case she was western.

Which is better actually?To have a chance or to have no chance?
Of course after she starts a relationship with you there is the risk of her leaving when finding sb who she thinks more attractive than you.This is the challenge.You have to prove you are worth her,you have to be interesting,not boring.Now you understand a bit slavic mentality?

As for the guys.I will give you some examples.You have a czech girlfriend and you sit with her in a cafe and other friends.She may sit in the lap of another boy or even kiss him in mouth.This is considered normal n Czech Republic.The foreigners get frustrated but the natives just think this is due to cultural gap.You do not need to worry if your girlfriend flirts with another guy even in front of you because it is part of the culture.

In Ukraine if she loves you a lot she may bring her friend to sleep with you as well if she thinks that will make you happy.They are just more open minded.Of course in Poland these extremes are not usual but you may see other things close to them.In fact there is no need to worry about girls' behaviour and I think slavic boys are more tolerant and know to handle their girls much better.They accept the girls' behaviour,do not try to change them.And they do not spoil them.

Married polish girls who do not get much love from husband is very possible that they sleep with other guys.They still love the husband but need to satisfy their emotional needs.If husband does not know,nobody is hurt.

So whether you have an affair with a polish girl you met in a resort who has another boyfriend or is married,you should be grateful for the attention and love you get and not blame slavic chicks who at least have good souls.

And because of this good soul,not spoiled they make good wives.
MwHunk
29 Apr 2007 #120
Southern:

what you said is just ********. I wonder who buys this ****. Only retard boyfriends who are too dumb can put up with this kinda crap.

Good luck to those who have had such a polish /slavic girlfriend. Run away and find another if you can !

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