seems like the duality of choice doesn't apply to me as a man;)
taking it up the back door is a choice made by a significant percentage of gay men. as for the duality of choice in your case, don't forget about the mouth. :)
But all you talking about is anal.
Anal this anal that.
if the word 'anal' appeared in the title i guess the mods would not like that. a lot of people seem to be obsessed with it on this forum as the subject indeed keeps coming back. many guys see putting their sausage in that particular hole as a personal achievement and something to be proud of, but come on, isn't it kinda homosexual? i can only guess that in the thread author's case (that's if he ain't lying) the girls in question, who happened to be Polish, had their previous partners begging and begging them for some anal and it got so annoying that they finally agreed to do it. Then they meet the thread author and ask him outright if he wants it, cos they might as well get it over with, and maybe for once enjoy it the way that mother nature intended?! I'm only guessing! Lol.
I have recently overheard a few guys at my work chat about this actually. One of them said, let me try to quote: If she claims to be an anal virgin, then why does it glide in there so easily? I was half tempted to turn around and tell that bloke that maybe if his &%$ wasn't the size of a AAA battery it wouldn't glide into tight spaces with such ease, but I'm still on my probation period there so I try to keep it down. For now. :P