Zimmy, why the heck did you have dinner with her in the first place ?
She was very attractive and at the time I thought she was smart. It's also the way I roll. I enjoy fine dining and a nice 2 hour dinner with wine gives me plenty of time to get to know how someone reacts, eats, thinks, etc.
If she had paid for your meal would you have considered a second date with her?
That would have been a shock with this particular woman since that idea was alien to her. But if she 'saw the light' and wanted to pay then just maybe there would have been some redemption for her. I'd give her another shot.....
You tested her but maybe she was testing you?
She certainly was unhappy about the final test score (lol).
the person no matter woman or man who initiates a date at a café or restaurant should pay the check
That's good in theory and I concur with it. Here's the problem though; men are still expected to initiate dates and that puts them in a "Catch 22". Men are still expected to ask for the date and ergo, they pay for it.
Even when women do the asking they still expect the men to pay. Let's be honest about this.
he amount of sexism and racism in this thread is unbearable.
Are you a women's studies major? lol The ones I've met 'feel' that everything is unbearable if it doesn't go their way. If asking women who demand equality to pay their fair share is unbearable then the world you live in must exist outside the sphere of logic.
a man who is desperate about having to pay for a woman's meal had better not get anyone pregnant....
You suggest that a man is "desperate" under that circumstance. What do you call women who always expect men to pay while they never or rarely do? They must be way beyond "desperate".
you all are, permanently or from time to time, in relationships with Slavic women because you couldn't afford British/American women.
What an incredible insult to Slavic women. In effect, you are saying that they are somewhat less than human...and you are the one concerned with "sexism"?
I have about 50 pairs of shoes. If I want to, I will but 50 more
Another shoe obsessed female fetishist eh? Shoes seem to be a security blanket for lots of women.
I have only allowed men to pay for my tea.
You have "allowed" eh? Interesting choice of words.
most importantly, do not make offensive verbal generalisations on the Internet.
Heal thyself first.