Polish Girl Doesn't Want To Touch.

Nah, he's just some kid without a clue.

I still think there might be some cultural differences here that he's touching on (no pun intended). The "free love" sexual revolution did not make as big of a mark on Poland as it did on US.

The sexual revolution took actually place in communist countries.

hmmm.. did you, by any chance, ever post as nomaderol?

Most here have concluded that the boy's problem with this girl is not cultural but rather that she simply doesn't like him romantically.


Likewise, we've seen plenty of testimony on PF that Polish girls can be plenty loose when they want to be.

Polish girls are very loose.One evening I stayed in Poland and almost got gf.

Southern, you don't live here so you can't make that call. I just don't see what you see. They like to cut loose into the later hours but who doesn't?

that's like you would say that PF men are full of sh!t... :)

She gave me an answer. She said there was a blockade in her. I asked her what the blockade was. She said she didn't know. I said, would you like to move past it? She would not answer. She acted irritated that I was even asking.

This morning I said it's time to go. She got her stuff and left.

I can only imagine what a piece of crap she must think of me as. A pervert that wanted true love. I pyscho that would have died for her. But a reasonable enough person to draw a line and say, "Frankly, Olga I don't give a damn." I'm so horrible for wanted us to be elevated in a relationship that many people only dream of, and she thinks of me with disgust.

I shed tears last night, and I'm gonna be sad for some time to come. I'm trying to hold it together, some of you at me as pathetic to even have let this go so long or and some of you look at me as rapist for even wanting to hug her in a sensual way as if the need for human affection were a emotional disorder. Well she's gone and I told her to go. I already want her back.

F*!k. F*!k. F*!k. F*!k. I'm crying.

You crave for a mercy fucck.

go through the thread again and then you'll understand why she is laughing.

coming to this forum u will get few words of comfort, but u will get truth from your peers.

learn from it.

Good for you, man. You did the right thing. She was using you.

Don't be so hard on yourself, it's not all that. The two of you just didn't share the same feelings, is all. It sucks but we've all been there. Chin up.

You seem like a sensitive guy who isn't afraid to express his feelings, many chicks would kill to find a guy like that. I think in no time you'll find another. And hopefully you will have learned from this experience.


Lol. True. Coming from here it can sometimes get downright ugly. But for the most part he can count of us to tell him how we truly see things.

we all got our heart broken at some point in out lives... under many different circumstances...
it's not the end of the world... you'll be ok in no time...

You're an artist, right?
This is when the best stuff comes out of us!
Get on it!!
Don't waste it.

Yes sir. you will be ok and as f stop said, use the pain to express yourself artistically.cheers!

Have you ever considered.... She could be lesbian?
Or maybe she just doesn't like you?

Now you will have to paint the empty room after her departure.Four white walls.

Whatever happened with Olga? Did she change her mind? Did she ever come back?

yep! just don't use her dead body parts to make a sculpture, for example! :)
or her skin to make a face mask... ;)

Pshhhhhhhh! Don't go giving the boy any ideas!

"It puts the lotion on its skin..."

If she wasn't prepared to talk about it then for what does her opinion count?

her opinion counts for shiit if she can't talk straight to you

now your going overboard.. she wasnt attracted to you the same and think about it, if she
was using you, she could have just faked it and stayed ... kept you stringing along.

what did she do? she left.. cause she didnt feel the same, and it would be the right thing
to do considering how you feel and how she feels.. and not everyone is meant for each
other.. but now you know what type of person you want to find. you found a friend in her
and that should have come first and foremost.. now you not only lost someone you were
falling in love/Lust with, but you lost your friend.

I think the only repair is to apologize and just try to focus on a new direction..

It never sounded like she was using you, anyone who is in need of a place to stay will
certainly take up those offers from their trusted friends.. especially if your in a new country
and I think this can be repaired, but you sir, need to bring your feelings back into the coral
because you are fantasizing about something that you knew had a wall and you turned
to us for advice and she was already giving you signals that clearly showed you she was
not interested in you that way what so ever. she prob did however value friendship and
you need to think about how your feelings really made you feel, was it love or lust?

because love is something that grows over time and it takes a long time, you love how
she talks, you love her smile. I didnt see this, I only read that you wanted to touch
and that means my friend you felt sexual towards her,, thats lust!!

anyways, get back to your normal, apologize and eventually if she feels she can trust
you both can prob be friends still.. * HOPEULLY*

and one last advice, you seem like a very passionate guy, so you really need to find
a woman that is passionate like you, now if its true that you are a artist, or something
like this, well, find someone who shares the same interests.. you might have already
had that person there, but because you were so blind not to see, she went unoticed
while you were panting down this other girls neck.

think about it..

* Hug to ya* hope you feel better, dry those tears, and open those eyes wide.

there is so many fish in the sea
and so many you need to see :)

take care p

Hey you did the right thing let her go. move on next time dont do so much for someone you only get hurt.there is plenty of women who would love a guy ike you.

Yeah I learn it too, don't do so much for someone who doesn't even care about you, bad idea!

omg... so you lived and you learned, it was clear that she didnt like him that way, and
its clear ( in life) that we are all not attracted to each other the same!!

its different if you meet up with someone who just keeps taking till theres nothing left, but
in popcorns situation , he was falling for her, she left when he asked her to, so if she was
trying to burn him in some way, she could have stayed and strung him along.. cause its
obvious he was smitten.

but she didnt, she felt irritated when he asked her those things, which means, she was
uncomfortable , of course the way it sounds, is that they did have a good friendship.


your making it sound like it was her fault , but imagine if you were in a home with a
trusted friend ( male) and all of the sudden hes making small moves on you, but yet
you dont like him like that, you like him for a friend and now you feel uncomfortable
cause hes trying to get a little closer then you expected, and then because you wont
he says, well thats it then, get out!!

anyway, maybe by now they have repaired their frienship.. and sometimes thats more
important then anything.

The truth is, if someone just doesn't care about another there is nothing that will change this, no matter what the other does.

So are you both friends again now?

Doesn't sound like they were ever really friends.

It was so obvious she had no sexual or romantic interest in you. It sounds like you don't understand women or people very well. And you sound a bit controlling.

Realise you can't make people love you and realise women are not obliged to be interested in you.

Yes I do think she was using you somewhat, but I also do not think your feelings towards her were genuine either. You were only being "nice" (creepy nice) because you wanted sex. She wouldn't give it to you so you kicked her out of your apartment.

Relationships aren't a business transaction.