What do foreign women think of Polish men?

I told my latina girl friend that Polish guys are hot... and she bought it... so we are going to Chicago after summer to look for them...

lol

polish men don't like foreigners......exp black women. but the polish girls like foreign men....

So why my ex Polish bf left me for an Indian girl? grrr..

because what you see written here is NOT carved in stone, just opinions most of the time:)

It is capitalism at work.Polish males lose their females who go for the bigger income males who usually happen to be locals.Since Polki are a bit feked in the head they cannot attract so much the highest income levels and end up with third wordlers.

Polish men having lost their females become target for older local women who cannot find local young pretty boyfriends and for third world women who see Poles as an upgrade from their dark status.

I hate capitalism.

lol... utter rubbish mate :)

I have to agree, Polish men are genetically ungifted, wheras Polish women are some of the most beautiful women on this planet.. they can do better then the beer drinking, balding , lazy Polish men that are out there...

some of the Polish men are attractive but the majority are lazy good for nothing potato heads..

So its truth that you say bad things about someone you feel threat from...

Well, I'm here. Just don't forget to buy me dinner and show me a good time. Brush up on your physics.

Poor Zimmy :( Nothing more to add to that really...apart from..dumped and used and needs to get his frustrations out somewhere...most blokes with friends go down the pub..cant get a woman and has no friends :(

sorry ZiMMY... sugar plum... but we are not meant to be....

If you only knew; but stop 'smarting' from the verbal but thoughtful drumming you've consistently received from me and no need to project so much.


That's alright my fair lady, as I have another Pygmalion picked out. Always glad to upgrade those who don't know better.

I only know one polish man. He is handsome. He drinks a lot of coffee.
Working hard.

LOL The problem is that I don't see sexy-looking girls exactly throwing themselves at the superior Polish guys or better guys in general (not just talking about looks here, but rather overall charm, style, manners etc.) The question is do they realise they can do better, do they feel they don't deserve better or are they even capable of recognising 'better'? They must be able to see the difference, otherwise American films would flop in Poland since Polish girls wouldn't get the appeal of the cool movie stars.

I think many of these girls must be lacking in self-esteem in a way that is not easy for a man to understand. For us guys, it's simple: "she's hot, she can do better, wtf". Last night I was out in a club in Krakow, and I was amazed yet again at the girls' crappy taste in men.

As a general point, perhaps women have less faith in their looks than men think they do. For a woman, a guy might be very handsome but if he is too weak, too insecure, too horny or too boring, she can be turned off immediately. For most men, if a girl is very attractive, she'd have to have a pretty extreme deficiency to put him off...at least at the beginning. Maybe attractive women feel to some extent that men are selecting them according to similar criteria and therefore believe they can't have a more desirable man (e.g. "what would this guy want with a poor village girl like me?" instead of "I'm hot...I'm going to find a cool guy")

I think Alx you get drown in a spoon of water as we say.The criteria these girls choose have to do primarily with financial assets and secondarily with appearance:These girls choose according to the following criteria:

1.How much is his disposable income?
2.How much of it can I get?
3.Is there possibility for marriage?
4.Is he living in Poland?

These are the main criteria.The appearance issue can be double sword and is double interpreted for example:if he is handsome how comes he not have a girlfriend?Either he lies or is socially inept or has psychological problems.But an ugly guy will stay with me longer since other girls will not pay attention to him.He will be more faithful more spending on me and more likely to marry me.

You see here the reverse thinking.Of course we Balkans don't mind about that we just let our weapons slip off our trousers when we hear the order:presenten armas!

In defense of Polish men: I had one just leave after visiting for couple of weeks - to escape the frozen Chicago and advice us on some huge, I thought, house projects we were about to undertake. Within a week, all the hard to open doors and windows were fixed, the problem with the roof, which local experts insisted was an all new roof job, was pinpointed and fixed for <$50. This one would look, analyse and think of each problem a LOT before he decided on a best course of action and then the thing would magically get fixed.

All I'm saying is that to an untrained eye, it might have looked that he was not doing much of anything.
The secret is to leave them alone and not to nag.

That's so true for so many things. In fact, that may be women's biggest deficiency. It's formal voice (nagging, whining, accusing, etc) is feminism. On a personal basis nagging seems to be endemic if not inherent in women (just ask any man).

Glad you had a good experience with this guy on the house projects. I could use him at my winter home.

Alx;"perhaps women have less faith in their looks than men think they do."

That's for sure. Women obsess about their 'looks'. Yet, they pretend to be "objectified" and insulted when men do look.

I well remember the woman who had 3/4 of her bosom hanging out and who was dressed in a micro mini (while sitting down) telling me that women shouldn't be seen as sex objects.

I almost spilled my coffee as I laughed so hard.

You prolly haven't seen much in Krakow, if you came to England where I live then you could really see how bad taste in man some Polish have.

I'm beginning to suspect that your obsession with feminism colors way too much of your life.
Regardless of whether you're a man or a woman, getting things done works best if you figure out the best way to deal with the person you are faced with. Unfortunately (or fortunately for some) too many women have to do the "Oh shucks, I could not do that without you" dance, especially with insecure men, or else they would be accused of being communist lesbian feminists.

the term "communism" is rather a communication method between men, progressive dialog with action-reaction.. rather a mind thing. anyway, this is another issue..

the correct term for females is "socialist lesbian feminist" and this is not a term to be ashamed of. if you are in marsh, to get out of marsh, you hold hand of a person who you trust. holding an empty hand of a human (man or woman, doesnt matter) means socialism.. in this case, i.e. in lesbianism, a woman is holding hand of another woman. better than holding hand of a male with money in his hand (conditional capitalist hand.).. so, in that sense, such females are doing better than males. so, if feminism means superiority of females over males, yes, so, females are doing better than males.. so, socialist lesbian feminism is not a term to be ashamed.. if it is an ashamed thing, then, we males should be ashamed of this as this marsh has been our product..

Being dressed up as a girl by his mother from a young age whilst being made to watch "what every happed to baby Jane" a few 100 times can do that to a fella! :D

I made it clear that I wasn't just talking about appearance but also charm, manners, style, etc. Yes, that criteria makes sense in theory, but it doesn't explain why they go for guys who do not have money, and also do not seem to have too much else going for them.


This is an interesting explanation. But it may even go further than just appearance. It might explain why they go for certain nationalities that do not appeal to other (western) girls. Or why they go for boring, serious guys, who cannot pick up many girls. It's clearly a self-esteem issue. As you said before, this is different to Greek girls, for example, who would rather be single than settle for some 'malakas'..hehe.

since when girls like guys who can pick up many girl since when girls like guys cheating on them lol

Well I had met lots of polish people while I was working in UK and I will be honest. Polish guys drink almost so much like UK-guys.

Some of them are not self confident...probably thats why they drink so much...and those who do not drink are over confidence and pride. From my experience I can say that I met a polish guy that was flirting with me all the time- he came to my department just to see me. He started and invited me once for dinner. The day of the dinner he called to cancel it...because he stated I had a boyfriend. I finished with my boyfriend weeks before. He did not even give me the chance to explain to him that...if he know I had a boyfriend why he invited me for a dinner?...After that I thought he was crazy I ignored him but he continue visiting my department.Weeks later I heard he was dating the girl that he said to me (she was his best friend a polish girl) . It was not easy to try and figure out what went through the head of this guy. I can say that eastern europeans and western europeans are really different.

I have some friends that had similar experiences...I think polish guys do not know what they want and they preferred to date at the end a girl of their same nationality...even if they do not like the girl so much...they need some who takes care of them...and a girl tthat they already know....and that she already know him....thats bored...to be honest...One of the best things in life and love is to start dating someone from 0.

I also think they also take care so much of their bodies. Some of them look like Arnold Schwarzenegger...Gyms in UK are fulll of polish guys....

Regards,
French Girl...

I meant guys who aren't appealing to many women. The point was whether attractive Polish girls select guys based on their 'bad' features because they know those guys will be faithful. In other words, 'bad' becomes 'good'.

hehe yeah and you are that guy with good features thats why girls dont want you, is that the way you explain it to yourself? :D

I do just fine, especially when I act like a wuss. :) It would help if you responded to the points raised with your own observations.

We should also make the distinction between attractive and manly.Most commonly polish girls do not choose manly looking men but feminine looking ones(who can be attractive otherwise) that is why they cause this confusion to men.I mean these guys they choose appear as rather vulnerable not exactly the kind one man respects.

Yes, exactly. And those traits are not attractive to western women.

Maybe polish girls have a secret hope that they will later exercise control so they tend to choose feminine men.As one of my former gfs put it,"I was embarassed about the fact that all men I liked proved to be gays."