paul_w_LA 7 Jun 2011 #1Can someone give me some insight. I work with a cool polish dude, he moved here about 10 years ago with family, etc. But over the past 2 years, I have sensed that he has been 'kicking it' to me. I'm an American, not from Chicago area (los angeles) and i'm not sure what to make of this stuff ... Here are some examples:1. When I came back from a vacation, he told me over the phone 'I wish I was there to welcome you back in person'.2. Asked me over the phone if he could 'do anything for me?', after I approved some days off for him. When he said this to me, in was with a sexual tone, in my view.3. Lets his leg touch mine in meetings, or standing in groups in the office.4. When a few of us traveled to a conference together, I knocked on his door to get him for dinner, and he had his shirt open, and his trousers opened ... before he tucked them in, as he opened the door.5. When we all retreated for the night, and headed back to our rooms, he walked with me and as I stopped at my room, he stared at me and slowly kept going.5. Everytime we are talking about smartphones, i.e. 'The latest Droid is really big', he uses the opp to say to me, 'That's what she said'. Finds ways to bring this up when we are alone in my office.So, is this just a cultural misscommunication, or is he trying to send me a message? He's mid-30's, single, talks about girls but never has a girlfriend.Argh ... confused metro-hip, American guy.