I have a crush on my boyfriend's Polish friend ( advice needed )

he is very stubborn , says he aint got a problem, saying he doesnt harm anyone so theres no problem.. well he will get smarter some day hopefully, because hes breaking himself down...

well if i found out he felt something for me, ofcause id be happy, but i would be able to keep distance as he has a girl friend, if he left he and was 100% sure that she wasnt the one for him, sure id gie it a try if he wanted, and id leave my bf, for 5 years i havnt even looked at other men , well i have but not like thinking they were hot and so on.. other guys just wasnt interesting. and on scociale networks if guys wrote to me, i never replied, cuz i knew what they wnated and i didnt want any other than my bf. and then that guy came along. and for the first year i knew bout him, he wasnt interesting either.. then just one day. boom, i would have married him on the spot if he asked hehe

at least you get to see him everyday.. wish i could :D so if he decide to leave his gf , will you tell him?

Ah boys will be boys, still immature. It's up to you as to how long you can tolerate his behavior. One thing I can say for sure though is : it is wrong to stay in a relationship just for the sake of the kids. They will be the ones affected most.


He's been saying that for the last few months, but he hasn't done it, so I reckon he won't leave her anyway.

And if he finally does leave her , I wouldn't tell him...unless he asked me first.

@ princessa your story sounds as ''Telenovela'' and I can't wait for result all of this, but damn! send him the letter and tell him know what you feel, what are you waiting for?. Life is too short to miss out on the beautiful things like being love..

If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, it would most likely be worth it the risk...