well, best thing is- have fun with the friend. If you like 3some, then speak to your bf! you might get love from both sides! and you wont lose any of them
i wouldnt cheat on my bf like that, if i wanted to be with someone else i would leave him first. so no 3some lol
Who are you trying to convince here?
im not lying to myself first of all.
you say theres no reason to tell... how would you know if he really was interested , but is holding back during respect to his friend and my kids, and he dont wanna lose his friend ?
and you may be right. it might cause drama, if he told my bf i wrote a letter to him telling, or if he was interested and i left my bf for him.
but lets say i told him in a letter, and he said it was cute but hes not interested, then i would 100% accept it. and in that letter i wouldnt even ask him to be mine, its just a letter with my feelings. no offers!. and if he rejected me, it maybe would help me to move on , .. if he said he have been thinking the same, it was a completely different reaction than i would expect. and i would be ina big mess, but then i would be glad i wrote to him, cause what if i never did if he felt the same. now that would suck to know someday...
this guy is in his 30's so i doubt he would be the type to start a big drama.
time ago I saw a movie, I can't remember the title, about a woman and a man who never spoke to each other and were only meeting to make love. I always find it fascinating - that connection between people that is beyond words, words always separate. One can't have a serious relationship without words though
hehe sounds crazy, love without words is possible..i know.. i wouldnt want him just to bang bang with him tho,.
im sure if i ended up with him we would be able to speak somehow. as we now have been writing a little in polish. so im not worried about that :)