roynelson2012 2 | 12 4 Apr 2012 #1Hi just wondering do polish couples have children outside wedlock ?
OP roynelson2012 2 | 12 4 Apr 2012 #3cause i know many couples in germany and netherland that do have children but are not married
ReservoirDog - | 132 4 Apr 2012 #4O.k. sorry I didn't check your profile ;).yes, it happens, but most people get married sooner or later. Sometimes this depends on your financial status, marriage involves costs, especially Polish wedding. Sometimes incompatibility of characters makes that people split :) - immaturity. Having children outside marriage, especially being married to another person, betrayal is criticized.
OP roynelson2012 2 | 12 4 Apr 2012 #5th reason i asked is im married to a polish woman and we are going through a divorce at the moment . but my girlfriend at the moment is also polish. we want to get married but we cant , not till the first marriage gets cancelled. we dont want to wait to get married to have children . pls advice
ReservoirDog - | 132 4 Apr 2012 #6we dont want to wait to get married to have children:) wait. You didn't wait at the first time and now you want divorce. What if your new girlfriend got pregnant and will never marry you?? you could lost your child...just look at Anglik1 thread.
OP roynelson2012 2 | 12 4 Apr 2012 #7so ur saying its not a good idea to have children with my current girlfriend and that i need to wait for the divorce to come through .
OP roynelson2012 2 | 12 4 Apr 2012 #9and what if the divorce takes time. and me and my girlfriend want to start a family or if she gets pregenant suddenly
OP roynelson2012 2 | 12 4 Apr 2012 #11I just need some some solid advice . please as a friend tell me what i need to do , causei have absoulutiely no idea. with a civil marriage under my belt i cant do a church marriage . i need cancel the first marriage with my ex wife. and then move on . please
isthatu2 4 | 2,694 4 Apr 2012 #12EditWhy the rush for children or to remarry?Leave to remain under EU right to family life clause.......
Amathyst 19 | 2,702 4 Apr 2012 #14Me thinks someone is spot on..first woman he married - decided it wasnt for her for whatever reason, now he's after getting one pregnant to ensure he retains his rights! I wonder when Polish women will get wise to these kind of men?