the marriage has been not good for a few year thats why she had to come and work in England. We both love each other and we are both happy. we dont even live together we are 200 miles apart .
Besides being a woman who is attracted to men, you also have to understand who she is: a mother, it's a major part for females in being a woman and you have to understand one rule about mothers that usually never or rarely does it fail: No man can separate a mother from her children.
If her children dont like you, most likely things will end between the two of you.
If you want to build a stronger relationship with her then you have to earn likeness from her children, no matter how old they are.
Most likely they won't find you likable, but rather unethical if your's intentions are to help that woman divorce her husband.
Sorry, that's just the way life works.
She can't make a decision says it all, really. Even if she said yes to marrying you, you'd be with a woman with baggage. Is that what you want?
Yes she can make her own decision but shes not alone. Besides what kind of a mother would engage with a man who will not fancy her children, her own flesh. That is just very rare and if it did happen, this story would probably hit the screen in movie theaters!
But it looks like shes tight with her "mature children" since she dragged them all the way to England!