that really doesnt exist in europe
Yes it does.
you do know its rude to ask girls how old they are in poland right?
It's not 'rude' to make sure that a sexual partner is legally able to consent. The laws relating to that in Poland (and anywhere else) exist for a reason.
call me a pervert for wanting either a mid teen girl who herself wants me or posisbly even a younger one if shes healthy and unusually forward for her age
Yes, it is easy to call you a pervert. Sleep with people your own age, or close enough to that to be legal.