Now you know what I was talking about when I said...
This is not the exact place though ... but yes this thread seems to have treated you well somehow. Some people would like to throw stones at anything they see (because ofcourse, some people are just too big a looser).
But hey, anyways ... it doesn't matter does it?
You guyz have yourselves, she has a father ... and you two have a son! Its all good. You will find the nice people surely in Poland (just look at your wife!) ... but then there will be a few stray people who got no other better thing to do. Just tell your son not to be like them when he grows up. Its like, he also gets to see a few examples about whom not to be like!
By the way ... move around the forum ... people of East or West ... all the good ones can very normally come across good Polish men or women with whom they quite happily spend a good life. Other things (every other thing) come only after that, and believe me, with time and effort - everything is manageable. What matters is that you are doing something good, having courage and patience in your hearts. You rely on each other, and have the warmth and power of love within.
Just come Poland ... your money is alright! ... And whatever might you face, you will do good if you all are together facing it :). That is what families are about! ...
Even a million mathematics don't tell that everything is foolproof. Wouldn't then life become so boring?
Come along my friend... here is a Polish inviting an American with the title "FRIEND"!
You are welcome ... :)