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Polish maid very flirtatious?


not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #1
Hi!

I noticed that our Polish maid behaves very differently when my wife is not around. She is very flirtatious and is always putting her hands on mine. There is starting to grow a bit of tension between the wife and the maid. One time she jumped into my lab like a little kitten and asked to feed me my meal, and this was really over the top, imo.

I was wondering if Polish maids are culturally expected to seduce the man of the house, as in Brazil?

Or is this just a singular experience?

I don't want to look for a new maid, its hard enough to come by decent workers as it is, so I hope to diffuse this situation in the most simple way possible.
bullfrog 6 | 603
13 Aug 2015 #2
Tell her you are gay and your marriage is only one of convenience..
delphiandomine 83 | 17,914
13 Aug 2015 #3
I believe these kind of problems often occur in a part of Poland known as "Strefa mroku". It's a common experience there, and one should be careful when resident there.
OP not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #4
Tell her you are gay and your marriage is only one of convenience..

I think she already knows me a bit better than that, unfortunately.
Roger5 1 | 1,458
13 Aug 2015 #5
One time she jumped into my lap like a little kitten and asked to feed me my meal

Sounds like a lady who loves her work. When your wife fires her, give the maid my contact details.
OP not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #6
Sounds like a lady who loves her work.

I will admit in private here, that watching her scrub down my Lexus and smile at me through the window has made me think unchristian thoughts, but oh well. The wife is getting irritated so.....I don't want to hear nagging anymore.
Niko
13 Aug 2015 #7
I was wondering if Polish maids are culturally expected to seduce the man of the house, as in Brazil?

It's much worse than in Brazil, because as a guest in Poland you're expected to sleep with the maid. Not doing so is very impolite.

BTW your awareness of Brazil is impressive.

Or is this just a singular experience?

Polish maids tend to fall for arrogant fascists, that's in their genes.
OP not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #8
I'm not a guest in Poland. I own a house here, and 45 ares of land. Poland is my second home.
Dougpol1 32 | 3,296
13 Aug 2015 #9
One time she jumped into my lab like a little kitten

Do you have a lab(rador) or a cat?

Anyway - you post a picture of the maid so we can decide, and I'll post a picture of my lab.

Methinks he doth protest too much. All my cleaners 1. couldn't clean for toffee 2. Made the dog look attractive.

There was a UKTV prog about foreign workers in Britain. The Polish au pair wrecked the marriage - you guessed it, she seduced the wife.
Ziemowit 13 | 3,829
13 Aug 2015 #10
I think she already knows me a bit better than that, unfortunately.

Knowing your taste for the Enlightment, she tries to bring this age closer to you. People were very flirtatious in the Age of Enlightment, Casanova and all this. Didn't you know that? On the other hand, wives were not particularly jealous of their husbands, so your wife doesn't seem to be an Enlightment type at all. Your wife must be a kind of a nuisance for you, maybe she is with you only for your Lexus and 44 ares of land ...
OP not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #11
Doug, how much do you pay for service?

I pay extra for good help.

I pay to have someone that is light on the eyes and is willing to go that extra mile.
Roger5 1 | 1,458
13 Aug 2015 #12
Lexus and 44 ares of land

We have 46 ares and an old Jag. Now I just need the maid. Does she, er, wear a uniform?
Dougpol1 32 | 3,296
13 Aug 2015 #13
I pay to have someone that is light on the eyes and is willing to go that extra mile.

LOL! We have a club in Gdynia called Bodega for that sort of thing. On the subject of cleaning - I had to let the "maid" go, as whatever she was doing in my flat for 4 hours of a day, it certainly wasn't cleaning! 75 zl per week taken out of the dog's mouth :)
OP not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #14
Doug, we have a slightly different arrangement and my maid will basically do anything I ask of her. She is a real professional, despite the sluggish nature of many Polish workers.
Dougpol1 32 | 3,296
13 Aug 2015 #15
She is a real professional,

So are the girls at the aforementioned club - or so I am reliably informed.

You must have a big pad - for the maid to be there all day........................ No wonder your wife is a bit mad. Do you have a jacuzzi by any chance? Pictures of said maid please.

Any film from the monitoring camera is acceptable too :)
OP not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #16
No, no jacuzzi. Also this forum won't let me post photos.

I admit, some of my British and Dutch expat friends do receive favors from their maids, they say it is to calm the bloodstream from the stress of dealing with so many disobedient Polish employees.

Regarding my maid, however, I have put a lot of work and effort into training her for a more amenable and malleable nature. Even her husband thanked me for the work I did with her.

I really don't want to waste time having to go through this process again with another young lady.
delphiandomine 83 | 17,914
13 Aug 2015 #17
BTW your awareness of Brazil is impressive.

Yes, this guy seems to have quite a lot of knowledge as far as Brazil and Saudi Arabia is concerned.
Player1
13 Aug 2015 #18
No, no uniform, and no car either. Her husband drops her off to me at 8 in the morning, and she leaves at 7 pm.

What a scary situation to be in as a a woman; working for some sleazy weirdo far away in some village who thinks that she is attracted to him whilst she problably detests him.

Poor girl
OP not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #19
Player1 do not worry . I was only joking. I do not have a car or a second home in Poland. Yes, I am from Brasil and I am gay. I live with my parents. I wish I had a Lexus and a Polish maid. If you don't, why not tell a dream about it on the Polish Forum.

If I were really from Brazil, I'd be getting even more vajeen than now: this younger generation of Polish women have an unhealthy obsession with brown men.
el_easy 2 | 54
13 Aug 2015 #20
I was wondering if Polish maids are culturally expected to seduce the man of the house, as in Brazil?

This is happening, because you hired a young maid.. If you want to save your marriage you better hire a old woman..hehehe
not_swede_troll
13 Aug 2015 #21
I agree that maybe hiring an older maid maybe the way to go but they are much harder to break in.
Niko
13 Aug 2015 #22
Well, if you're interested in knowing whether Polish maids are 'very flirtatious', then you can show your maid this thread (with google translate if she's not comfortable with English). Her husband might also have a valuable opinion on that topic.

Alternatively you can keep on posting anonymously on your land, your maid, your car and your wife, and gossip about the lack of moral values among 'disobedient Polish workers' or 'Polish women [who] have an unhealthy obsession with brown men' (sic).
EyalOlmert
13 Aug 2015 #23
"I was wondering if Polish maids are culturally expected to seduce the man of the house, as in Brazil?"

What the hell did i just read.... Did you watched some porn and are using that as cultural reference? As a brazilian i can say that the north of Brazil have some very weird customs but i think that even there this would not happen.

"Yes, this guy seems to have quite a lot of knowledge as far as Brazil and Saudi Arabia is concerned."

You are confusing every brazilian with me, how lovely delph :)

"this younger generation of Polish women have an unhealthy obsession with brown men."

Not all brazilians are brown, idiot.
OP not_polish
13 Aug 2015 #24
Yes, I did notice that in Brazil brown people consider themselves white. Lets get back to the topic? Sinful, tempting Polish maids?

I think I may call these ladies:

polishmaids4you.com/stain-removal.html

Their specialty is Stain-Removal.
mafketis 23 | 7,882
13 Aug 2015 #25
This is Polish forums, not Penthouse forums. The author should keep his fantasies to himself, they're not very arousing... (and I feel sorry for any poor woman who works for him).
Dougpol1 32 | 3,296
13 Aug 2015 #26
The author should keep his fantasies to himself

Absolute poppycock (meaning nonsense). I could put it stronger if you like. So you want people to lie down and die? Who doesn't have fantasies? I met a cracking lady tonight, had a few beers and and giggles, knew it was just that; the OP is also out for a laugh.

The sooner the OP registers himself the better. He is a breath of fresh air on this exceedingly boring forum, with it's long list of infantile posts such as "Is 4,000 zl a living wage in Warsaw" and " Do black men have big knobs".
Player1
14 Aug 2015 #27
Who doesn't have fantasies? I met a cracking lady tonight, had a few beers and and giggles, knew it was just that; the OP is also out for a laugh.

Yeah!! Who doesn't like to read about the sexual exploits of some creepy pasty middleaged men.
bullfrog 6 | 603
14 Aug 2015 #28
" Do black men have big knobs".

Haven't seen one of those for some time; same re real estate threads, which used to be the bread and butter of PF (remember Milky?), they seem to have largely vanished..

Let's back to the topic please
Dougpol1 32 | 3,296
14 Aug 2015 #29
sexual exploits of some creepy pasty middleaged men.

That's an intelligent observation, coming from a Swede. Do you support your government for their blatantly stiched up attempt to do the USA's bidding and have the founder of WikiLeaks banged up for the rest of his natural? I think Assange would have been on safer ground here. At the moment, here in Poland, there is no law against buying a lady a drink and having a social. And I'm not middle aged any more :)
mafketis 23 | 7,882
14 Aug 2015 #30
The sooner the OP registers himself the better. He is a breath of fresh air on this exceedingly boring forum

And then he can PM his disturbed fantasies directly to you without getting the rest of us.... soiled.

And to keep this on topic. Poland lost most of its servant culture during the communist period and norms of behavior between employers and employees aren't necessarily worked out yet (and since a lot of maids in Poland are actually from beyond the eastern border, cultural questions are also an issue).


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