This is nicely twisted. :):) I smell a rat but never mind, someone else might want to deal with a similar problem in the future.
No, I don't love him but I am horribly empathetic...
I see. You must be a very good person. :)
I said I don't mind taking responsibility of our sons if we divorce, so he can pay only for daughters, he won't be strained more
Alimony isn`t automatic, an ex spouse has to demand it officially to have it granted by the court. If you are so empathetic, you can simply abstain from demanding it from your husband so he will only pay his old alimony. :):).