Thing is we have no idea why they separated in the first place or her motivations, I would like to find out the circumstances before making a judgement.
Nope, it's like that in every country, every country tries to protect its nationals... that's simple stuff really and Poland is no different.
The best interests of the child should always prevail, the parent that is best placed, or if both are in some kind of an arrangement to provide for that to happen, then that is the way it should be.
As with so many other bets about the country which we live in and you merely claim citizenship of, you lose your bet.
So you are a legal expert now Harry?
To recap, if partially Polish children are in Poland, the foreign parent will only ever see those children again on the terms of the Polish parent.
I can only go on on what you can, and from observing the media over similar cases in countries like Germany and Italy, most particularly Germany with every case involving a Polish mother, the case has gone against the mother.
I don't mean to play on your guilt as I do not know your grandchild's circumstances but if you want your child to grow up well adjusted, you should take a look at these statistics.
According to this report the UK is failing its children.
CHILD WELL-BEING TABLE
9. Republic of Ireland
15. Czech Republic
20. United States
21. United Kingdom
So ask yourself the question whose well being is really a stake here, are you keen to look out for the interests of your son or your grandson?
Who is a better carer of your grandchild your son or his wife?
Why is the relationship between your son and his wife at this stage of separation? Ask yourself honestly whose fault really is it?
Having asked yourself these questions act independently irrespective of what your son's wife or your son thinks.
It's not a good start for your grandchild and I am sure you don't want him to end up being stabbed one day just because he comes from a broken home.
So just to clarify the issue why are they separated, is infidelity involved, if yes then by whom?
I am sure as a women you will understand another women's motivation and you can judge if if she is acting from the best of intentions or not.