I don't have kids its usually a threat to many.
Guys generally don't like paying for someone else's kids.
May I ask what you have to offer a Polish man ?
You say you are a Christian, are you Catholic ?
Where have you traveled to ?
Do you have any money to pony up for half of your dream or do you expect your Polish dream to pick up the whole tab ?
Are you willing to sign a prenuptual agreement of what your dream comes into the marriage with belongs to him in the event of a divorce after you get your citizenship and no longer need him ?
Why haven't any men in Kenya ask you for your hand ?
Have you tried an actual Mail Order Bride website to post on ?
Good luck with your fishing expedition.