dolnoslask
10 Jan 2015 / #61
Lodzland,
I have never bothered writing on this forum before now.
I am British born to polish parents, I my father thought for Britain in the polish 2nd corps under the british 8th army, my parents owed their lives and freedom to Britain, but also were very sad to be exiled in Britain after the war.
I am loyal to both Poland and England, I am sure that maybe you kind of felt this way when you met your polish wife, visited and had a chance to see the wonder and charm of Poland, as I saw it when I visited.
I moved to Poland a year or so with my British wife, we like the freedom and lifestyle, a bit like Britain in the late 60's , kids can walk to school alone, you can leave the house open (I live in a village in Silesia).
I knew when I came here I would not be able to find any work (I spent 30 years in IT ended up head of IT for a global engineering company) I had travelled the world, and have not found the peace and tranquillity I have here in Poland.
I am truly sorry things have not worked out for you at the moment, but I can see why, I grew up in a polish family, and I understand how things work differently in Poland and how this could catch someone out moving in, but these things happen (I was given the task to help set up a distribution hub in China oh and romania, what an expensive nightmare) but these things happen.
Please ignore the negative comments here, think about your wife and child, you are right to go back to the UK,
I am sure you can get your career going again and make a tidy bit of cash, I did I am retired 53. That's what IT can do!! And as you see I cant spell or string a sentence together either.
BUT please don't forget Poland, It's a great place to retire buy a house and live in holy peace as they say in Poland, for your child's sake please do not take the negatives you have experienced to much to heart your child or yourself may one or day wish to be back in Poland.
oh a final note for anyone who wishes to be a troll.
Having a polish first name and surname lining in England at times gave me disadvantages a follows:-
my father got regular Nazi salutes from kids in the street ( as immigrants you kind of start off in the worst part of town)
I struggled at times to get job interviews (One said they were surprised to see that I was white 1979)
I have been called a white N*****
I have been told that my mother was a polish Wxxxx and that I came from a achoholic race (Yes I can't spell don't care don't need to anymore ) ..... and many beatings in the playground to boot.
Non of the above ever stopped me getting on, I have no complaints , the bully's and idiots ended up in prison or on the dole, one bully once worked for me, he ended up ok in the end
Go home make some dosh and maybe come back someday.
I have never bothered writing on this forum before now.
I am British born to polish parents, I my father thought for Britain in the polish 2nd corps under the british 8th army, my parents owed their lives and freedom to Britain, but also were very sad to be exiled in Britain after the war.
I am loyal to both Poland and England, I am sure that maybe you kind of felt this way when you met your polish wife, visited and had a chance to see the wonder and charm of Poland, as I saw it when I visited.
I moved to Poland a year or so with my British wife, we like the freedom and lifestyle, a bit like Britain in the late 60's , kids can walk to school alone, you can leave the house open (I live in a village in Silesia).
I knew when I came here I would not be able to find any work (I spent 30 years in IT ended up head of IT for a global engineering company) I had travelled the world, and have not found the peace and tranquillity I have here in Poland.
I am truly sorry things have not worked out for you at the moment, but I can see why, I grew up in a polish family, and I understand how things work differently in Poland and how this could catch someone out moving in, but these things happen (I was given the task to help set up a distribution hub in China oh and romania, what an expensive nightmare) but these things happen.
Please ignore the negative comments here, think about your wife and child, you are right to go back to the UK,
I am sure you can get your career going again and make a tidy bit of cash, I did I am retired 53. That's what IT can do!! And as you see I cant spell or string a sentence together either.
BUT please don't forget Poland, It's a great place to retire buy a house and live in holy peace as they say in Poland, for your child's sake please do not take the negatives you have experienced to much to heart your child or yourself may one or day wish to be back in Poland.
oh a final note for anyone who wishes to be a troll.
Having a polish first name and surname lining in England at times gave me disadvantages a follows:-
my father got regular Nazi salutes from kids in the street ( as immigrants you kind of start off in the worst part of town)
I struggled at times to get job interviews (One said they were surprised to see that I was white 1979)
I have been called a white N*****
I have been told that my mother was a polish Wxxxx and that I came from a achoholic race (Yes I can't spell don't care don't need to anymore ) ..... and many beatings in the playground to boot.
Non of the above ever stopped me getting on, I have no complaints , the bully's and idiots ended up in prison or on the dole, one bully once worked for me, he ended up ok in the end
Go home make some dosh and maybe come back someday.