Okay ... hopefully my wife doesn't read this, but here's my two pennies worth.
I moved here on June 1st, also because the missus wanted to be close to her family and friends again. I gave up a career as a Lt.Col. and now work as a Sr. Project Manager in Wroclaw. In the evenings I also teach languages, mainly Dutch (there is a Dutch faculty at the university here), German and some French. I sold my house in the Netherlands, so I have nothing to go back to.
Believe me, I would NEVER EVER do it again. Maybe in my case it is a bit different, cause I not only had to adapt to living in a country which is completely different than the Netherlands, but also because I am having to adapt to civilian life. Don't, under any circumstance, give up everything YOU have. It's a recipe for disaster, in my opinion. One of the partners will have his or her way, the other one is left without anything. I don't have to remind you what happens if things go haywire, and you are left on your own in a country where you don't know the lingo and you are pretty much on your own.
Well ... that's just my opinion. Having said that, tomjustyna, all the best to you both. Hope for you it works out, no matter which decision you make in the end.
I moved here on June 1st, also because the missus wanted to be close to her family and friends again. I gave up a career as a Lt.Col. and now work as a Sr. Project Manager in Wroclaw. In the evenings I also teach languages, mainly Dutch (there is a Dutch faculty at the university here), German and some French. I sold my house in the Netherlands, so I have nothing to go back to.
Believe me, I would NEVER EVER do it again. Maybe in my case it is a bit different, cause I not only had to adapt to living in a country which is completely different than the Netherlands, but also because I am having to adapt to civilian life. Don't, under any circumstance, give up everything YOU have. It's a recipe for disaster, in my opinion. One of the partners will have his or her way, the other one is left without anything. I don't have to remind you what happens if things go haywire, and you are left on your own in a country where you don't know the lingo and you are pretty much on your own.
Well ... that's just my opinion. Having said that, tomjustyna, all the best to you both. Hope for you it works out, no matter which decision you make in the end.