eloise
4 Feb 2019 / #1
A Polish guy of my age treats me in a weird way and I don't understand me. He has this kind of behaviour only with me, with the other girls he's kind and helpful. I did not do anything bad to him by the way.
- as soon as I come to work, he starts laughing and elbowing his female friend
- once he threw a box in front of me intentionally saying sorry in a feminine voice (to mock me)
- he looks at me while working and starts whistling songs
- once he got mad at me because I didn't take the box immediately an said something in polish tough he knows I cant speak nor understand polish
- he walks weirdly (like, slowly and like models, swinging), has buzzcut blond hair and a serious proud expression all the time, and with me has this bossy and serious tone, with othr girls he jokes and looks calmer and kind
- he helps all the girls. Except me. Once he was in trouble and looked at me for help. I did not help him cause he threw the box at me.
- once he opened the door and let it close in front of me. With other girls he's always gentleman and kind and holds door and boxes for them.
- he always treats me differently. Does he nate me for my ethnicity (I'm eastern european too, but not polish)
Can you give me some advice on how should I behave towards him? Avoid him, pretend he's not there and ignore him? Or mock him just like he mocks me (I actually dont want to deal with him, cause he has lots of friends as I do not at work). And above all, why dies he hate me so much? I have a polish friend and know polish people, they are friendly and hardworking, this guy hates me for just existing
- as soon as I come to work, he starts laughing and elbowing his female friend
- once he threw a box in front of me intentionally saying sorry in a feminine voice (to mock me)
- he looks at me while working and starts whistling songs
- once he got mad at me because I didn't take the box immediately an said something in polish tough he knows I cant speak nor understand polish
- he walks weirdly (like, slowly and like models, swinging), has buzzcut blond hair and a serious proud expression all the time, and with me has this bossy and serious tone, with othr girls he jokes and looks calmer and kind
- he helps all the girls. Except me. Once he was in trouble and looked at me for help. I did not help him cause he threw the box at me.
- once he opened the door and let it close in front of me. With other girls he's always gentleman and kind and holds door and boxes for them.
- he always treats me differently. Does he nate me for my ethnicity (I'm eastern european too, but not polish)
Can you give me some advice on how should I behave towards him? Avoid him, pretend he's not there and ignore him? Or mock him just like he mocks me (I actually dont want to deal with him, cause he has lots of friends as I do not at work). And above all, why dies he hate me so much? I have a polish friend and know polish people, they are friendly and hardworking, this guy hates me for just existing