Concerned
25 Feb 2012 / #1
In my teaching experience in the UK I am alarmed to see that more and more Polish children do not seem to make expected progress in school even though they were born and educated solely in the UK for at least 3 or 4 years. Many of them do not know how to speak in neither Polish nor English - their vocabulary is limited and their grammar is poor. They struggle with writing and reading and their levels are way below expected. In general their language skills (in both Polish and English) are not age appropriate. Those children pass from one class to another and teachers smile and say polite things to parents during parent evenings. Then, a few years later, parents learn that their child is illiterate. Shock, disbelief and quick intervention from outside agencies.
Many Polish parents are failing their children in the UK. It will be a lost generation. A generation of poorly educated people with poor social skills, emotional and behavioural difficulties. Time to act now!
Many Polish parents often say to me that they "try to speak English" to their children at home. WHY?? They say that they had their child's best interest in mind. Think again. You're not helping your child, quite contrary, you are making a big mistake, which will not help your child. Many Polish parents don't speak very good English - their pronunciation is poor, their grammar is not secure, yet they speak "broken" English to their children. This is VERY BAD PRACTICE. Many parents later admit that they made a mistake and they try to "correct" it but it is often too late. Their children have speech and language difficulties, delayed cognitive skills and they generally struggle with learning. All research by speech and language therapists and linguists say that PARENTS SHOULD SPEAK LANGUAGE THEY KNOW BEST TO THEIR CHILDREN. And also that PARENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR DEVELOPING POLISH OF THEIR CHILDREN. How?
- by talking to their children (you would be surprised how many parents don't do that. Why would they if they had a TV and a computer to make their children dumb and mute)
- By reading to their child EVERY DAY
- By playing board games and still talking
- Describing things around (lots of talking)
- sending their child to Saturday Polish school
- sending their child for after school clubs (sport, dancing, art) so that child is socially included in school environment
- spending time with their child (your child should matter more than TV programme)
- arranging play time with other children to help them develop their social skills (letting your child spend 5 hours in front of TV and computer each day is wrong!)
If you care for your child's development and future prospects you have to seriously consider all above notes. Otherwise, you will regret that you let it slip through your fingers.
Check at home:
1. Write some addition, subtraction, multiplication and division (not too easy and not too hard) and ask your child to do it.
2. Ask your child to write in Polish and in English a story and then check its level
3. Ask your child to read aloud and summarise text in the newspaper
4. Ask teachers for your child's levels and what group are they in (top set or bottom set - children with learning difficulty)
5. Check how much homework is your child given. Does your child know what to do? Can you sit with your child and see how well can they do it on their own.
6. Go to BBC.co.uk/schools and choose appropriate age group and subject and ask your child to do the test to show you the results
7. Ask your child what are they learning in English (literacy), Maths (numeracy), history or biology. Can they say anything?
and so on...
I hope that your child is doing well in school and that you are being a responsible parent.
If your child is having difficulty at school please share your concerns.
After all we need to help each other and support each other.
Many Polish parents are failing their children in the UK. It will be a lost generation. A generation of poorly educated people with poor social skills, emotional and behavioural difficulties. Time to act now!
Many Polish parents often say to me that they "try to speak English" to their children at home. WHY?? They say that they had their child's best interest in mind. Think again. You're not helping your child, quite contrary, you are making a big mistake, which will not help your child. Many Polish parents don't speak very good English - their pronunciation is poor, their grammar is not secure, yet they speak "broken" English to their children. This is VERY BAD PRACTICE. Many parents later admit that they made a mistake and they try to "correct" it but it is often too late. Their children have speech and language difficulties, delayed cognitive skills and they generally struggle with learning. All research by speech and language therapists and linguists say that PARENTS SHOULD SPEAK LANGUAGE THEY KNOW BEST TO THEIR CHILDREN. And also that PARENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR DEVELOPING POLISH OF THEIR CHILDREN. How?
- by talking to their children (you would be surprised how many parents don't do that. Why would they if they had a TV and a computer to make their children dumb and mute)
- By reading to their child EVERY DAY
- By playing board games and still talking
- Describing things around (lots of talking)
- sending their child to Saturday Polish school
- sending their child for after school clubs (sport, dancing, art) so that child is socially included in school environment
- spending time with their child (your child should matter more than TV programme)
- arranging play time with other children to help them develop their social skills (letting your child spend 5 hours in front of TV and computer each day is wrong!)
If you care for your child's development and future prospects you have to seriously consider all above notes. Otherwise, you will regret that you let it slip through your fingers.
Check at home:
1. Write some addition, subtraction, multiplication and division (not too easy and not too hard) and ask your child to do it.
2. Ask your child to write in Polish and in English a story and then check its level
3. Ask your child to read aloud and summarise text in the newspaper
4. Ask teachers for your child's levels and what group are they in (top set or bottom set - children with learning difficulty)
5. Check how much homework is your child given. Does your child know what to do? Can you sit with your child and see how well can they do it on their own.
6. Go to BBC.co.uk/schools and choose appropriate age group and subject and ask your child to do the test to show you the results
7. Ask your child what are they learning in English (literacy), Maths (numeracy), history or biology. Can they say anything?
and so on...
I hope that your child is doing well in school and that you are being a responsible parent.
If your child is having difficulty at school please share your concerns.
After all we need to help each other and support each other.