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Baby father doesn't know English but wants to go for the British citizenship


RubasznyRumcajs  5 | 495  
6 Aug 2016 /  #61
that's it.
seriously, people, obvious troll is obvious.
people cannot be that stupid (and no, i'm not new to the internets)
peterweg  37 | 2305  
6 Aug 2016 /  #62
we end up going to Poland what happens to me?

Who said you will be allowed in Poland? As a non-EU citizen you won't have any rights. Maybe Poland would give you a one month holiday visa, nobody knows.

You would have to learn Polish if you wanted to live and work in Poland.

You would have to, as an unskilled builder he would return along with several hundred thousand other Poles and there will be no work. Either go to another EU country (you would have to learn that language) or sit at home in his village drinking vodka from your 500pln a child.

Have another baby, 1000pln vodka money and he is sorted.
OP Dreamergirl  4 | 273  
6 Aug 2016 /  #63
I'm English citizen and as he don't want to learn English I'm slowly trying to learn polish for the sake of the baby at least
peterweg  37 | 2305  
6 Aug 2016 /  #64
Don't speak to him in Polish, let his father do that. That way the baby will be bi-lingual.
OP Dreamergirl  4 | 273  
6 Aug 2016 /  #65
Yeah but then how will I communicate with my husband to be if I don't speak polish
Lyzko  41 | 9613  
6 Aug 2016 /  #66
I'd bone up first on your "native" English, Dreamergirl, before tackling Polish! Your grammar mistakes are atrocious. Or maybe your boyfriend could help you with the former as well:-)
OP Dreamergirl  4 | 273  
6 Aug 2016 /  #67
Well it's the situation I'm in now not much I can do about it now is there and he says he's too old to learn new languages
Lyzko  41 | 9613  
7 Aug 2016 /  #68
Again, lots of luck with sign language and caveman grunts:-)
Sounds like a scintillating timeLOL
OP Dreamergirl  4 | 273  
7 Aug 2016 /  #69
Well I will be learning polish so I think we should be ok . Do you know any way to convince him to learn English?
Lyzko  41 | 9613  
7 Aug 2016 /  #70
In your case, learn Polish! I've found when dealing with foreigners, YOU as the Anglophone in this scenario, will always have the upper hand because nearly everybody else in the world HAS TO submit themselves to learning English, while you DON'T necessarily have to learn Polish (being in a position to rely on interpreters etc.).

Chances are too, as you've described, his type will never want to learn English whereas yourself have the desire to learn "his" language, therefore giving the motivation required to really know a language on a native-speaker level:-)
OP Dreamergirl  4 | 273  
7 Aug 2016 /  #71
I was thinking maybe witholding certain acts for like a day until he agrees
peterweg  37 | 2305  
7 Aug 2016 /  #72
Unless you get him to learn English, your, his and your child's life is destroyed.

Withdrawn everything because otherwise he will F**k off and abandon you
OP Dreamergirl  4 | 273  
7 Aug 2016 /  #73
I think that's a bit extreme cos I think he likes looking after me because he's older
jon357  73 | 23129  
8 Aug 2016 /  #74
People sometimes do, Dreamergirl, and you are perhaps very lucky
OP Dreamergirl  4 | 273  
16 Sep 2016 /  #75
I don't like drinking vodka especially now I'm having a baby it makes me sick
peterweg  37 | 2305  
17 Sep 2016 /  #76
And damges the brain and body of your child.

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