And recording sexual abuse or threats is a tad..erm...to late!
Actually it would be a good opportunity to get rid of him for good if he is such a bastard!
Why do you assume all is peachy? Because the father is polish??
maybe parents had issues, you don't and I don't know!
What the heck does he want to tell them nobody else should know???
Could be easy to find it out !
but no!, there is the case and suspicions,now!