Agreed 100%, also we must take into consideration many of the Brits/Irish/Americans et al who have been around a while in Poland have busted their balls to carve out a living, nothing comes easy in Poland especially if you have lack of disposable. I am convinced 100% it is so much easier for the Poles moving to the Uk/Ireland other nations, than other non Poles moving to Poland.
Yup, agreed.
I mean, take a look on this forum - almost every week, we see some joker saying "hi ive just moved to poznan looking 2 giv english lessons or grammer thanx contact me". They haven't got a hope in hell, Poland is going to eat them up - it's simply not the place for someone who doesn't have two brain cells to rub together. I suspect a lot of them also aren't ready for the shock that their partner is going to be earning crap wages as she'll probably have to start at the bottom, especially if she was working in a crap job in the UK.
I look at my current job - it effectively took three years of ridiculous hours, a great deal of crap from people I worked with and a lot of broken sleep before I got into a good position work-wise. And that same position pays what - I think about half of what it would pay in the UK. It does have perks, but there's still plenty of ball-busting ahead of me.
But what shocks me is that most of them seem to have put absolutely no thought into their move. I can understand it when you've got a flat, a car, health insurance and so on paid for - but when you're just moving because there's nothing for you in the UK (or more accurately, some woman refuses to stay there any longer...) - insane.
Unfortunately many Ang/Pol couples are moving here with great expectations that they are going to shake the apple tree. There is very little opportunity unless you speak Polish.
Speak Polish, have cash OR be willing to work hard and have something that they want. And be willing to network like mad.