I wouldn't say that is in itself racist (although it is somewhat unlikely that one is only attracted to one's own race for reasons other than racist reasons).
You're a smart guy, Harry but you need to delete your statement (above) before anyone will actually read it (LOL)
As long as that is the reason and the fact that he's black doesn't factor in at all, of course one isn't racist!
Yeah but the thing is, that people are being judged before they even get a chance to explain it and in most cases, even after they explain it, no one really believes it and still calls them racists.
None of those examples you give are actually racism. However much you think or pretend it has become a 'cheap word' doesn't for one minute impact on the fact that it is one of the worst behaviours of Homo Sapiens.
Thank you for agreeing with me, Jon but don't forget that this "behavior" is as old as humanity and so, as long as it's just words and not actions, why worry about it? Most of us just say things but will never really do any of it. Let people talk, words are cheap, who cares.